Was the woman wrong for leaving her man in this situation?

[Finesse]

How is it a win for her? now instead of paying half she has to pay all her bills by herself?

Now she doesnt have to be "bothered"

Aka shorty can do her own thing and fukk who she wants to fukk guilt free

 

[Ashley Banks]

We don't know the details in their situation.

She may very well be some microwave meal making thot. We don't know.

well she felt the need to leave so clearly there was something wrong there. The “not be bothered by him“ part leads me to believe that life is easier without him.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

She was right, especially since men expect you to do all the cooking, cleaning, and most of the child care and then you also have to pay for half of everything even though you make a lot less. Might as well not deal with the headache of having a man and do it on your own.

Men dont expect anything. We tell you what we want, you either rock with it or find somone compatible to your needs/wants/likes..

 

[Ineedmoney504]

They married and don’t have a joint bank account? Lol foolish shyt

 

[BrehWyatt]

No. She's not wrong.

For better or worse... her standards and principles are her standards and principles. More women ought to hold men to them and vice versa.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Men dont expect anything. We tell you what we want, you either rock with it or find somone compatible to your needs/wants/likes..

we’ll just have to disagree.

 

[Swirv]

Depends on if she was purposely being wasteful. If you’re busting your ass to make twice what the partner makes and they’re wasting resources it’s natural to tell them to pick up the slack.

 

[MaxPain]

Im so glad my girl doesnt pull shyt like this

Topics like these are always for controversy

Get u a bytch that does what u say when u say it, get u a side piece or two and keep it pushing.

Cuz it’s only gonna get worse.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

we’ll just have to disagree.

Do you NOT expect the man you plan on marrying to be a provider?

 

[BrehWyatt]

Do you NOT expect the man you plan on marrying to be a provider?

I'm pretty sure that's how it's set up in her day-to-day. If that's her standards and her dude is with it ... they like it, I love it.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

I'm pretty sure that's how it's set up in her day-to-day. If that's her standards and her dude is with it ... they like it, I love it.

My point in expectations and lack of communication...

 

[fckyoupayme]

Bills should be paid proportionately. They should have never gotten married if this is all it took for the union to end

 

[GreenGhxst]

If the shade room comment section is saying a woman shouldn't split the bills

They need to be doing wifely duties like cooking, cleaning, laundry and providing that p*ssy most times when a nikka want it

But that ain't happening with most of the freeloaders in the comment section

I side with ole girl tho, if I make twice as much as my girls makes I wouldn't split that shyt down the middle, that's ridiculous

Y'all are supposed to be a team, no?

 

[Sterling Archer]

Depends on the situation. If due busting my ass working 50-60hrs a week to make twice as much while she sitting around, she gonna still pay half. Stop being a lazy fukk.
If dude making more and saving all his extra money for them but she spending all her money on dumb shyt, she still gonna pay half. Stop being a greedy fukk.
We dont know the intricacies of their relationship to know what is appropriate and what isnt. Thats why these type of posts are just to illicit "He aint shyt" or "fukk her" responses.

 

[kwazzy100]

She was right, especially since men expect you to do all the cooking, cleaning, and most of the child care and then you also have to pay for half of everything even though you make a lot less. Might as well not deal with the headache of having a man and do it on your own.

Are most women looking for house husbands?