They’re both right 
Was the woman wrong for leaving her man in this situation?
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Except the woman in question isn't a housewife if she has a job as well.
I dont agree she'd have to pay half of everything if she was a stay at home mom. However , she is pulling income herself. There should be parts she should be paying, not just leaving it all to the husband.
A1aaa
Respectful Fade Runner & Card Puller
if it's feasible for her to pay half, then she should... fukk all the extra shyt. that discretionary money the husband makes could be dumped into index funds or stable investments to eventually benefit both rather than just paying bills because she doesn't want to pay half... nah. 
this is why i can only date certain types of established women...
also, cooking and cleaning are overrated attributes for a spouse in 2020. gonna need a little more than that to justify not grinding. i got cleaners in my house every two weeks minus any headaches like this
this is why i can only date certain types of established women...
also, cooking and cleaning are overrated attributes for a spouse in 2020. gonna need a little more than that to justify not grinding. i got cleaners in my house every two weeks minus any headaches like this
O.T.I.S.
Veteran
Good for him
Idk about half but chick doesn’t want to pay anything can gtfoh and go do her dumb shyt on her own all she wants.
and not every chick is expected just to cook and clean. He’s having her pay half so I’m sure he does half too. I’m sure she expects him to do than man-side of shyt around the house, then “help” with the woman’s stuff (which is just cooking and cleaning), then pay most of the bills...
that’s usually how that goes. I’m sure they discussed it before getting together as well...
so bye chick
Idk about half but chick doesn’t want to pay anything can gtfoh and go do her dumb shyt on her own all she wants.
and not every chick is expected just to cook and clean. He’s having her pay half so I’m sure he does half too. I’m sure she expects him to do than man-side of shyt around the house, then “help” with the woman’s stuff (which is just cooking and cleaning), then pay most of the bills...
that’s usually how that goes. I’m sure they discussed it before getting together as well...
so bye chick
Entropy Fan
Superstar
That’s punishing success. He didn’t bust his ass and get his money up just to have to end up with more financial obligation.
Maybe she needs to make more. She might complain about spending money a lot less
The hubby won. Yall nikkas in herefor the wife would have all types of shyt to say if he piad for everything then she took him to the cleaners in a divorce.
Speaking for myself ... just because she's right doesn't mean he's wrong.
It just means she's right. Again, standards and principles. That's all this is. Standards and principles. She stood on hers and he seemed to do the same for his.
Entropy Fan
Superstar
Reason why I'm all about no labels, once you're "boyfriend" or "husband" all of sudden you're supposed to meet all these unrealistic expectations such as paying for everything
And your not supposed to tell them something as basic as watch your figure. Sucka shyt
Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
Y’all always ask these dumb, redundant questions. I’m cool with any non-custodial parent paying child support. What, you thought I was going to say that moms shouldn’t have to take care of their kids?
She probably cheating with a bum ass nikka or her supervisor and her stupid hating ass friends probably said she don’t need him.
Whole time, soon as she leave buddy they gonna talk about her ass for leaving a “hard working good man” for some dikk and lowkey tryna to put they family on him.
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Whole time, soon as she leave buddy they gonna talk about her ass for leaving a “hard working good man” for some dikk and lowkey tryna to put they family on him.
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Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
Y’all keep on talking about busting his ass, and he probably has a desk job
And maybe she is working on getting a new job. But if he’s making 60k, and she’s making 30k, no it’s not fair that they split finances equally. Their pay isn’t equal. It’s really that simple.
It says she left her husband.
Husband.
So I have to ask if they were living together before getting married and if they discussed this sort of thing.
But here is one reality...
If you are paying 500 of a 1000 rent, and you're letting that ego put you into an apartment paying 1000 by yourself...did you really do the smart thing?
Hey. To each his own
Husband.
So I have to ask if they were living together before getting married and if they discussed this sort of thing.
But here is one reality...
If you are paying 500 of a 1000 rent, and you're letting that ego put you into an apartment paying 1000 by yourself...did you really do the smart thing?
Hey. To each his own
Rollo Goodlove
Palestine Titty
i pay the big stuff she pays the small
And help mend her previous financial fuccups.Reason why I'm all about no labels, once you're "boyfriend" or "husband" all of sudden you're supposed to meet all these unrealistic expectations such as paying for everything
"Girl, I got this old parking ticket and they're gonna send it collections"
Her friends egging her on like: "You got a man don't you? He's supposed to be helping you."
The ticket is 6 months old
The relationship is 3 months old
The ticket came from her being parked in a no parking zone while she was at her ex-boyfriend's crib.
ultraflexed
Superstar
They both win with her leaving imo
This.....there's no free lunch...
The only exception is if she is a stay at home mom or has kids and works and takes on the majority of house work.
But if she ain't got no kids any she wants to keep more money, then she should get a second job, other then that...
