Was the woman wrong for leaving her man in this situation?

[videogamestashbox.com]

What kinda "half" we talking?

1. "were's your half" .....on everything, is annoying and I understand her issue(I don't need a MF in my home playing bill collector on me at the end of each month).



2. Now if you mean...

I PAY:
Mortgage, utilities, my car, etc

U PAY
Food, kids clothes, your car, etc
....and she still mad, then she trippin.

 

[General Mills]

If the roles were reversed she'd insist that he pay half

Yup. My brother got divorced. He works in IT. Makes around 60 grand. She has two masters. Head nurse of a hospital. Easily over 150 grand a year. Had him paying most of the bills. I did not even know until I lived with them for a short period. I was paying them my rent and shyt. One day she said the price of the whole rent and I was cause that meant I was paying half. I asked my brother how much he was paying and he was paying the other half


I said yooo. Wtf is she paying? Part of the light bill and her car insurance. My brother was paying EVERYTHING ELSE.


I said bro wtf is going on??


I must have planted the seed cause he really evaluated everything and told her things need to change. (Not just the money ). She doubled down on her bullshyt cause she was used to him just rolling over.

he asked for a divorce


Now she is miserable and thotting all over town and my brother has a BAD Jamaican sista. Has her own home and makes three figures too and is not a money hungry bish

 

[AnotherRoute]

These things are fukking stupid.

If he is paying all the bills what is her money go to?

 

[Elle Driver]

Kinda ridiculous since he makes more than her.

 

[thelonious21]

She was right, especially since men expect you to do all the cooking, cleaning, and most of the child care and then you also have to pay for half of everything even though you make a lot less. Might as well not deal with the headache of having a man and do it on your own.

what kind of men do yall deal with

 

[Coli Bot]

Did him a favour tbh. if she loved him she would do it and he would maybe see the love and sacrifice and possibly start paying more once she'd proven herself a lil bit. Women dont know the meaning of sacrifice its about me me me.


She obvs dont love him. So be free and enjoy your money playboi ... no more worrying about trying to make a bytch happy

 

[Swirv]

I dealt with this with my ex. We were living together and I was handling all of the bills. She was doing all the cleaning and cooking (and doing a great job of it) so I had no problem with the setup. And I'd give her a couple hundred a week of spending money. She got mad when I told her stop spending $10 a day just on Starbucks. So she decided she wanted to get a job so she has her own money to spend. So since she was now working she wanted me to split cooking and cleaning duties with her. At which point I told her she needs to start kicking in on a couple of bills. Not even half but just handle the cable bill. She got mad that I even asked. I broke down to her that her getting a job makes my life harder while not benefiting me at all. And how all this stemmed from her not being willing to sacrifice one way or the other.

She also got mad that and called me cheap because I was wanting to build my savings up. Some women don't want to be treated like or act like adults at all.

It's sad she different understand the reason behind your argument.

My situation is peculiar in a way. I pay the bills of the home and watch our child full time. Wife goes to school and works sometimes to pay her car expenses and personal items. She cooks 100% and cleans 80%. So far the arrangement works but my income has taken a hit due to child watching. I truly wonder how my wife will change when she graduates and starts making the big bucks.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

but he should have had these talks before marriage. divorce isn't cheap

I've never told any woman how much I actually make.

 

[Coli Bot]

Y’all keep on talking about busting his ass, and he probably has a desk jobAnd maybe she is working on getting a new job. But if he’s making 60k, and she’s making 30k, no it’s not fair that they split finances equally. Their pay isn’t equal. It’s really that simple.

So if it was the other way around should the woman pay more of the bills?

Oh and desk jobs are fukking stressful on the brain so relax yeah.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Yea but she gets to keep all her ego, emotions,pride an money

How does she keep more money by paying all the bills

This generation is fukkED, can't even do simple math

 

[Phitz]

Aside from finances, whats the difference between marriage and dating these days? Is there a difference anymore? They seem to be treated the same.

 

[ThaEruditious]

This...

like I said earlier, obviously this is something they discussed and were doing in the past.

Now she no longer wants to do it because he makes twice as much? You guys are married... it doesn’t even matter at this point. I’m sure he’s not splitting every bill with you but at least pay half the rent.

I had this issue with an ex. Wanted me to let her stay in my 23rd floor condo but didn’t want to pay ANYTHING due to the fact that “I was making a lot more than her”.

I was like “well I expect you to pay SOMETHING... my bills just increased by you being here, pay the internet bill or cable or something”.

Nope... refused to. So I refused to let her move in.

Didn’t get no gas money, pay for groceries, nothing... and even that wouldn’t be enough with her ass living there full time.

Then she thought that cooking and cleaning would be enough (I already did that... I lived alone half my adulthood). Let’s just say her mentality on this amongst other things didn’t allow us to last long together...



And don’t get me started on how females think their p*ssy is worth more than paying half of rent.

This was literally all that needed to be said, everything else was a bonus.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

So he has double the income and is a free man? Plus she was cheating?

Sounds like a win for him.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

So if it was the other way around should the woman pay more of the bills?

Oh and desk jobs are fukking stressful on the brain so relax yeah.

Yes.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

If you're married and make double what your partner makes, yeah it's kinda trife to make them go half like they're a disposable roommate.