Weird Social Dynamics

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1.) Married Control Freak-I mentioned this in another thread but I’ve run into married people who were obsessed with who their single friends dated. Like literally giving people ultimatiums, catching attitudes over somebody else’s girl or guy. Caring WAAAAAYYYY to much.

In those cases I think the married person secretly wants the single person for themselves, but can’t have them so controlling who they are with is the next best thing. It’s weird shyt.

2.)Care More about the Public than Your Own Relationship. I’ve seen people in relationships do more for others they not with than the people they linked to. But will become resentful if they partners ask them to do anything. What is that?! Why be with em then?!

3.) Hooking somebody else up with the person you have a crush on. I be confused as hell. Girls will do this dumb shyt in a second. Is it some type of self-sabotage?!

4.) Getting mad at side chicks or friend zoned dudes when they finally find somebody? Da hell u want them to do? Just stay single and emotionally/physically at it beck and call while u give shyt all to them.

5.) Trying to humble and breakdown the person u with. Why u even wanna be with em if you feel the need to tear em down?


Any strange social dynamics you’ve run into in relationships, workplace, friendships...?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

1.) Married Control Freak-I mentioned this in another thread but I’ve run into married people who were obsessed with who their single friends dated. Like literally giving people ultimatiums, catching attitudes over somebody else’s girl or guy. Caring WAAAAAYYYY to much.

In those cases I think the married person secretly wants the single person for themselves, but can’t have them so controlling who they are with is the next best thing. It’s weird shyt.

2.)Care More about the Public than Your Own Relationship. I’ve seen people in relationships do more for others they not with than the people they linked to. But will become resentful if they partners ask them to do anything. What is that?! Why be with em then?!

3.) Hooking somebody else up with the person you have a crush on. I be confused as hell. Girls will do this dumb shyt in a second. Is it some type of self-sabotage?!

4.) Getting mad at side chicks or friend zoned dudes when they finally find somebody? Da hell u want them to do? Just stay single and emotionally/physically at it beck and call while u give shyt all to them.

5.) Trying to humble and breakdown the person u with. Why u even wanna be with em if you feel the need to tear em down?


Any strange social dynamics you’ve run into in relationships, workplace, friendships...?

Good thread. You’ve covered a lot of the ones that I’ve observed and found strange, but I’m sure there are others.

this one isn’t strange but, this has happened to me a few times. It’s always brehs with dreads too:
Flirting and being sexual with a women when your wife is literally a couple of feet away. As a woman, I look at the breh like damn that’s bold, but then I look for help from the wife, like come get your husband. The kicker? The wife pretends like it’s not happening. Not sure what to call that. I know that cheating and unfaithfulness isn’t a surprise, it’s more the boldness and lack of reaction from the wives who are right there pretending like it’s not happening that’s weird to me.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

The person who consistently makes poor life choices, then plays victim when people criticize them.

 

[KING WILL]

The person who consistently makes poor life choices, then plays victim when people criticize them.

This is a big one.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

3.) Hooking somebody else up with the person you have a crush on. I be confused as hell. Girls will do this dumb shyt in a second. Is it some type of self-sabotage?!

I thought it was the right thing to do...at the time...

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Good thread

 

[old boy]

Flirting and being sexual with a women when your wife is literally a couple of feet away. As a woman, I look at the breh like damn that’s bold, but then I look for help from the wife, like come get your husband. The kicker? The wife pretends like it’s not happening. Not sure what to call that. I know that cheating and unfaithfulness isn’t a surprise, it’s more the boldness and lack of reaction from the wives who are right there pretending like it’s not happening that’s weird to me.

it used to confuse me as a teenager. and then i realized something.. they actually enjoy it lol

all women? of course not but quite a few

 

[Dont@Me]

coli mods - always bushin my shyt

 

[The Fade]

it used to confuse me as a teenager. and then i realized something.. they actually enjoy it lol

all women? of course not but quite a few

Half of these married people be on that shyt

The men let their wives flirt with other dudes and get touchy

The women let other women kiss their man on the mouth and be touch

It’s quasi cuckold shyt. IMO they do it to make each other fake jealous.


Everyone objectifying each other is so fukking weird.

 

[International Playa]

Women not liking a guy because his too nice to them or cheating on their good husband

 

[idonttouchgrass]

Getting mad at side chicks or friend zoned dudes when they finally find somebody? Da hell u want them to do? Just stay single and emotionally/physically at it beck and call while u give shyt all to them.

Yes

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

People wanting a certain kind of partner, then when someone meets those qualifications, thinking something must be wrong with them, because they’re still single.

 

[levitate]

I haven’t really interacted with any one of those descriptions.

 

[levitate]

@Dont@Me

Sorry breh, saw your screen name and just had to @ you.

 

[ThisWorldAintRight]

The "I don't need nobody, I can take care of myself, fukk you....but why am I alone?" types. Been seeing a lot of it at work.