What advice would u give this woman

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Same could be said for both sexes, but I think there are older women who are realizing they brought into the wrong messages in life. Those messages are coming from society and people around us. :francis:
there will be plenty of single and childless older women gnashing their teeth in the coming years. There will be hard times coming for these lonely women.

And social media just pushes the knife in their hearts even further. Reminding her of her failures to get a man and kids, everyday. Reminding her that she’s lonely with no one worth a damn around her, everyday.
 

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I'm getting tired of these lonely attention seekers on social media. For every chick or dude whining into the void about how lonely they are, there's a cool ass chick thats very outgoing and friendly but hasn't had a boyfriend in years and still knows how to not be depressing and desperate. Why would a would be suitor choose this over that? That shyt is ugly. These people don't really love themselves. Eventually they're going to meet someone and poison them with their codependency.
 

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there will be plenty of single and childless older women gnashing their teeth in the coming years. There will be hard times coming for these lonely women.

And social media just pushes the knife in their hearts even further. Reminding her of her failures to get a man and kids, everyday. Reminding her that she’s lonely with no one worth a damn around her, everyday.
Pretty harsh statement but it goes beyond social media. This is no different than brehs thinking its cool to stand on a block 10 hours a day than to get a job. The bad messages without our community goes both sides.
 

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I’d tell her all these men aren’t trash you just aren’t the woman you think you are sis.

Humble yourself, be teachable, be open to criticism, and be cooperative.

All that requires accountability though which is a tall task for some women.
 
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