My life changed when I realized that the "fucc it" attitude wasn't for outside consumption but for the inner voice in my head. 



This. Always been quick to say what comes to mind but I've learned to pick my battles. Depends what's at stake.It comes and goes. What counts is that you can turn it on when it matters.
About 22 when my pops died, is when I went full blown flip mode. Prior to that I was selective because of not wanting to hurt feelings. At my age now, I’m on 1,000,000.Fucc it attitude meaning you stopped being scared to call people out on their bullshyt right then and there no matter the setting
You stopped biting your tongue on things even if it was small
You were willing to let ppl go or cut them off completely if they did something you didn’t like
