(What are the Odds) Relationship will fail after a miscarriage

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Most times I hear a guy mention him and his lady had a miscarriage it seemed like the couples relationship was on borrowed time after that.

What are the odds in your estimation?

 

[Geek Nasty]

You hear about the death of a child breaking up marriages a lot. I don't know the psychology behind it.

 

[Deman]

If shorty want a kid she gon have her kid

 

[get these nets]

Strengthens a marriage. Casual relationship might fracture

 

[Thavoiceofthevoiceless]

Strengthens a marriage. Casual relationship might fracture

Not always true and even you know that…..

 

[brandy]

Ending the Silence: How Miscarriage Impacts Your Relationship

Studies have shown that any trauma can affect your relationship, and this is true for miscarriage. A study from 2010Trusted Source looked at how miscarriage and stillbirth impact your relationship, and the results were pretty surprising.

Married or cohabitating couples who had a miscarriage were 22 percent more likely to break up as opposed to couples who had a healthy baby at term. For couples who had a stillbirth, this number was even higher, with 40 percent of couples ultimately ending their relationship.

It’s not unusual to drift apart after a miscarriage because grief is complicated. If it’s the first time you and your partner are grieving together, you’re learning about yourself and each other at the same time.

Some people isolate themselves to work through their feelings. Others turn to anything that keeps their mind busy and lose themselves in distractions. Some are more focused on those what-if questions that can get us stuck in guilt.

Worries like, “Will I ever have a child?” “Did I do something to cause this miscarriage?” “Why doesn’t my partner seem as devastated as I am?” are common fears and can lead to friction in a relationship if they’re left undiscussed.

An older study from 2003 discovered that 32 percent of women felt more “interpersonally” distant from their husband one year after a miscarriage and 39 percent felt more distant sexually.

It’s kinda sad when you look up stories of how it ends relationships.

 

[feelosofer]

Miscarriages are traumatic events it affects both people but especially women more. A relationship can still survive but it helps if both people seek therapy or counseling of some sort.

 

[CountryBoyL]

I went through that with my ex wife. shyt was rocky prior to the miscarriage but afterwards it was definitely done. I kinda knew I didn’t want another kid especially one from her so I divorced her. That shyt really fukks with a woman though.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

If shorty want a kid she gon have her kid

you know a miscarriage can be a bigger sign of problems in a woman’s fertility ecosystem right
Or you just trying to be a funny, edge lord
It’s not like an abortion(and even after that procedure
possible future complications can come about in fertility)
Swear y’all just be typing shyt to type
And clearly don’t know any real world women

 

[Strapped]

Once the female loses respect for her man

 

[WaveGang]

I read this as abortion mb... Idk about this.

 

[Deman]

you know a miscarriage can be a bigger sign of problems in a woman’s fertility ecosystem right
Or you just trying to be a funny, edge lord
It’s not like an abortion(and even after that procedure
possible future complications can come about in fertility)
Swear y’all just be typing shyt to type
And clearly don’t know any real world women

Meant she wants a kid she gon wanna try again

U doing too much typing breh