Teach me breh.... Cuz when my shorty say the wrong thing I don't have no Comeback filter.... I should do yoga....
I hear ya.
I have to remind myself that she ain't no fly-by-night bird, she's my wife...meaning "for the duration." I gotta dull my knives when arguing.
The adage "Pick your battles" is the realest shyt. Not everything is meant to be argued about.
Lastly, I noticed we argued heavy when we were in a small ass efficiency apt. Once we got space, things chilled. With covid, a breh became crafty and expanded the yard space (i.e. built a patio in the front and a firepit, outdoor furniture and put up lighting in the back. This allowed us to further not be on top of one another. My 2 pennies.
Good luck, brehthern.