What Changes Occur In A Young Couples Relationship When A Baby Is Born?

[Dog Based Gremlin]

What are general common issues that will come up?

Lack of sex normal?

movie dates cut in half normal?

etc

What things causes divorce or cheating revolved around a baby?



i been had baby mama issues but i got a former classmate with some similar issues so i ask my coli brethens

 

[Flash Thunderton]

She realizes your pull out game isn't as strong as you said it was and you gotta wrap up every time.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

She realizes your pull out game isn't as strong as you said it was and you gotta wrap up every time.

this is true

 

[Boogie]

She realizes your pull out game isn't as strong as you said it was and you gotta wrap up every time.

Fax

 

[Rawtid]

It's going to depend on the couple but guys are typically trash when it comes to helping out and this frustrates the mother. Make sure he's doing his part including getting up in the middle of the night, changing, bathing or not thinking of spending time with his child as "baby sitting".If this is their first kid then they should really read some parenting books together and he needs to be involved with lamaze classes and shyt like that and going with her with to her appointments.

The sex thing is dependent on the couple as well. I mean if they are both helping out, the mom shouldn't be too tired to fukk?!?! I don't know. Sometimes mother's get postpartum depression and that can cause issues but again, I think that stems from not having adequate help.

 

[Raava]

Hormones.

 

[Dwolf]

You answered your own question.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

It's going to depend on the couple but guys are typically trash when it comes to helping out and this frustrates the mother. Make sure he's doing his part including getting up in the middle of the night, changing, bathing or not thinking of spending time with his child as "baby sitting".If this is their first kid then they should really read some parenting books together and he needs to be involved with lamaze classes and shyt like that and going with her with to her appointments.

The sex thing is dependent on the couple as well. I mean if they are both helping out, the mom shouldn't be too tired to fukk?!?! I don't know. Sometimes mother's get postpartum depression and that can cause issues but again, I think that stems from not having adequate help.

Good wrap up this is the replies i was lookin for.

 

[Box Cutta]

Hormones.

Yeah...I've seen studies that show that male testosterone goes down after having a child...evolution's way of making you a more responsible father....

 

[Raava]

Yeah...I've seen studies that show that male testosterone goes down after having a child...evolution's way of making you a more responsible father....

I didn't know that. I was referring to what happened to women's hormones during and after pregnancy. It can be drastic for some women. Can change attitude, sex drive, mental stability or just heighten any emotion they have.

 

[Box Cutta]

I didn't know that. I was referring to what happened to women's hormones during and after pregnancy. It can be drastic for some women. Can change attitude, sex drive, mental stability or just heighten any emotion they have.

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/13/health/research/13testosterone.html?_r=0

In Study, Fatherhood Leads to Drop in Testosterone
By PAM BELLUCK
Published: September 12, 2011

This is probably not the news most fathers want to hear.

Testosterone, that most male of hormones, takes a dive after a man becomes a parent. And the more he gets involved in caring for his children — changing diapers, jiggling the boy or girl on his knee, reading “Goodnight Moon” for the umpteenth time — the lower his testosterone drops.

So says the first large study measuring testosterone in men when they were single and childless and several years after they had children. Experts say the research has implications for understanding the biology of fatherhood, hormone roles in men and even health issues like prostate cancer.

“The real take-home message,” said Peter Ellison, a professor of human evolutionary biology at Harvard who was not involved in the study, is that “male parental care is important. It’s important enough that it’s actually shaped the physiology of men.”

More at the link, here as well (Citing the same study I believe) http://healthland.time.com/2011/09/13/why-do-dads-have-lower-levels-of-testosterone/

It certainly makes sense to me, I definitely believe it. Of course, I'd like to know how much aging (Or, other health changes) are playing a factor here.

 

[Diondon]

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/13/health/research/13testosterone.html?_r=0



More at the link, here as well (Citing the same study I believe) http://healthland.time.com/2011/09/13/why-do-dads-have-lower-levels-of-testosterone/

It certainly makes sense to me, I definitely believe it. Of course, I'd like to know how much aging (Or, other health factors) are playing a factor here.

Oh shyt

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

Women stop fukking and being intimate in general with their husband...the baby is the most important thing in the parents life now it's no longer the partner

Also hormonally it effects women who are crazy naturally so you really gotta be careful..

That's without mentioning when women can get fukked up in the head and resent their babies and partner

So if you want less sexy and intimacy and no longer be the most important person in your partners life have kids brehs

 

[MikelArteta]

Divorce

 

[Solano707]

Get ready for less and less time with the boys, get a job or two (I had 3 lol) and all the dumb shyt you like to buy is no longer the case. You stress more about feeding the baby than yourself, same thing with Christmas presemts