What constitutes a person as lame?

[Music Fiend]

This came up cuz I'm tryna throw a party for my homeboys bday and I asked about 4 ppl to make alist of ppl to bring. When we compared lists of ppl everybody was clashing heads on some wack "don't invite those hoes, they lame, don't invite those nikkas, they lame"

And to be honest, one of the main dudes talking has nothing going on for himself.

What factors in to your beliefs of whether other people/yourself are lame or "cool" by your standards?

As I get older, I hear the most ignorant things ppl judged other by which IMO have little to do with how desirable that person is to be around?

I don't understand it at all. Because most peoples speculations as to what they consider "lame", the opposite doesn't make you "not lame".

So if someones lame because they don't drink or smoke, or aren't popular, you mean to tell me the nikka on the opposite end that smokes and drinks and knows a lot of people is automatically not lame? Or that the chick whose not out here fukkin is lame, but the chick who is isn't automatically lame? Doesnt add up.

 

[kingsteve]

I thought being lame means to be boring.

 

[scarlxrd]

Any nikka with the nerve to say another man name when that other man ain't even present and deny it when somebody ask him about it. That nikka's a lame.

This is the definition I go by.

 

[Canada Goose]

Its basically when you don't like a person lifestyle or personality traits, its stupid really

 

[Sterling Archer]

I thought being lame means to be boring.

Thats how its supposed to be but you know how nikkas are.

 

[Matt504]

sounds like your friends are working very hard to increase the probability of fukkery kicking off.

 

[Music Fiend]

This is the definition I go by.

Hmmm. Makes sense honestly.

I thought being lame means to be boring.

In a way I did to, but isn't that subjective? I know "hood nikkas" who are crazy enough to catch a body and all they do it work their job, come home, hit the porch with a case of beer and a quarter of kush. And try to find females to smash. Hell it could be friday and instead of going out they will invite ppl over to do the same ish he do every week with some females. Those are the first to call ppl squares and lames. Thats boring as hell to me, but

 

[Couth]

If you don't make any moves then i would describe you as a lame.

if you irritate me i'll describe you as a weirdo.

i don't judge other men based on their ability to entertain me, so lame =/= boring for me.

Your friends sound like some females though. Who really cares what dudes come to the party. You'll be focused on the females anyway. Invite dudes who bring females and party favors.

 

[Music Fiend]

sounds like your friends are working very hard to increase the probability of fukkery kicking off.

If you don't make any moves then i would describe you as a lame.

if you irritate me i'll describe you as a weirdo.

i don't judge other men based on their ability to entertain me, so lame =/= boring for me.

Your friends sound like some females though. Who really cares what dudes come to the party. You'll be focused on the females anyway. Invite dudes who bring females and party favors.

Right. They shot down half of my list of cute chicks who aren't slutty by any means but their fun to be around and have good energy in my opinion even if some don't smoke or drink. I don't really deal with "hoes" that are too loose unless I meet em when I'm around other friends. If I'm at another homies place and some females come thru and shes throwing it at me cool. But in my own personal life, I prefer the chicks

But I like that, @FilliBuster if you aren't making moves. So if you aren't doing work to go somewhere in life you are lame. Thats what it has always been for me.

Idc whether you tryna be a doctor, a rapper, a model or a teacher nor do I care about your social status. You could be the most well known, or baddest chick but be the biggest lame in a group of 5s.

 

[Music Fiend]

sounds like your friends are working very hard to increase the probability of fukkery kicking off.

Man that's what I'm thinking. I kick it with low drama ppl, but since they wanna invite "real nikkas and bi*ches" its gonna pop off as always. Everybody starts getting drunk feeling themselves and then next thing you know, someones tryna cracka bottle on someones head or a fight breaks out.

 

[Hyperion]

I thought being lame means to be boring.

That's what it's supposed to mean. But some people's definition of boring is warped, cause they only like to engage in fukkery. So in some cases with certain people, being called a lame isn't a bad thing. Can't please everyone.

 

[Food Mane]

Here's the new rule I go by:

Any dude that asks his friends to make lists of people to invite to a party is a lame



Also, if you been in it 10 and I been in it 5 and we have comparable levels of success you are a lame.

 

[Music Fiend]

Here's the new rule I go by:

Any dude that asks his friends to make lists of people to invite to a party is a lame



Also, if you been in it 10 and I been in it 5 and we have comparable levels of success you are a lame.

Alright bruh. Im not inviting all MY friends to my boys partys. I decided to invite about 15, and I had the other 4 of his good friends try and invite 15. Everybody loves variety. I don't want a bunch of black and mixed college chicks who aren't too tight and arent too loose at the party. Cuz thats all I really mess with. There gotta be a mix. Some white girls, some latinas, couple of crazy white dudes to get the beer pong rollin, couple stoners to bring the green etc.

 

[Food Mane]

Alright bruh. Im not inviting all MY friends to my boys partys. I decided to invite about 15, and I had the other 4 of his good friends try and invite 15. Everybody loves variety. I don't want a bunch of college chicks who aren't too tight and arent too loose at the party. There gotta be a mix. Some white girls, some latinas, couple of crazy white dudes to get the beer pong rollin, couple stoners to bring the green etc.

at you and your crew laying on one bed with your feet in the air, chewing on pencils, writing on hello kitty stationary planning a party

at you not inviting Clarence because him and Joanne just had a bad break up and Joanne has to be there because her best friend is Kristy and you know Kristy never lets Tommy go to parties by himself ever since what happened with Carla

at you

 

[BaggerofTea]

Adhering to sociatal labels sounds pretty lame to me