johntheblackjew
Banned
Also known as cowards corner.
I've had this fwb situation with this rather nice young lady for about 6 months now....but to be honest, it's gotten boring and I don't like her enough as a person to want to be friends afterwards. We hardly have anything in common but she's very cool.
Now, I guess I could just end it but I don't want to look like an a$$hole rejecting her...she's kinda fragile in a way that scares me.
She's deathly afraid of commitment and the idea of a relationship (hence the fwb situation). Initially I was pushing for relationship but her fear of that permanence scares her so she came up with this where we can be together, yet not together. I've never done the fwb shot before but after trying it with her, I kinda dig it. You get all the benefit of being in a relationship without the obligation.
Now...I'm at the point where I'm over it with her...but don't want to just end it. I want her to end it. Shell get the benefit of saying the "relationship" ended on her terms by her choice. Instead of feeling like I used and discarded her(rejection and all that mess).
I want to use the "I'm falling for you etc" bullsshyt, hoping it will freak her out and she'll say we need to cool it off. I'll just skiddadle into the dark and go about my Merry way.
What are the chances that she'll say "oh shyt, I was thinking that too and we totally should"?
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Even though she hasn't fully given me any indication that she's invested into our thing, we've become do routine in each others life, I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't mind us carrying on like we are.
Times like this I really wish I was on that HOH movement like some of yall. I just can't be cold hearted to women for the life of me. Too many aunts/female cousins and sisters to be cold hearted.
I'm in a bind breh.
I've had this fwb situation with this rather nice young lady for about 6 months now....but to be honest, it's gotten boring and I don't like her enough as a person to want to be friends afterwards. We hardly have anything in common but she's very cool.
Now, I guess I could just end it but I don't want to look like an a$$hole rejecting her...she's kinda fragile in a way that scares me.
She's deathly afraid of commitment and the idea of a relationship (hence the fwb situation). Initially I was pushing for relationship but her fear of that permanence scares her so she came up with this where we can be together, yet not together. I've never done the fwb shot before but after trying it with her, I kinda dig it. You get all the benefit of being in a relationship without the obligation.
Now...I'm at the point where I'm over it with her...but don't want to just end it. I want her to end it. Shell get the benefit of saying the "relationship" ended on her terms by her choice. Instead of feeling like I used and discarded her(rejection and all that mess).
I want to use the "I'm falling for you etc" bullsshyt, hoping it will freak her out and she'll say we need to cool it off. I'll just skiddadle into the dark and go about my Merry way.
What are the chances that she'll say "oh shyt, I was thinking that too and we totally should"?
.Even though she hasn't fully given me any indication that she's invested into our thing, we've become do routine in each others life, I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't mind us carrying on like we are.
Times like this I really wish I was on that HOH movement like some of yall. I just can't be cold hearted to women for the life of me. Too many aunts/female cousins and sisters to be cold hearted.
I'm in a bind breh.
