What does fun in your 30s look like vs your 20s

[BrothaZay]

I been pondering about this since I am currently 28

Ppl say your 30s and even 40s is just as much fun as your 20s but it could just be flabby babble

Can y’all come in here n be transparent

Compared to your 20s, does 30s:

-still get the same quality of women look wise

-still able to get fly(not ‘mature’ fly either. Street nikka fly )

-do ppl still invite you out

-are you still gonna have the same amount of spontaneous fun. Example in your 20s it isn’t uncommon to go on a weekend Binge just having fun and fukking hoz

-are women still as easy? Do you still have times where you have a one night stand in the car or something ?

Or is it just time to be a family man

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

I stopped actively pursuing women in my early to mid 30s. Women STILL throw the P, but I have too much to lose to accept offers and honestly sex doesn’t motivate me like it did in my 20s. The last young chick I smashed, I could’ve been her father we were so far apart in age. She pursued me.

Fun to me is hitting LA for a day and doing whatever or going to a good show. Fun used to involve pursuing a woman and knocking her down or hanging out with friends and talking shyt. I do neither these days.

I no longer get fly. I buy nice clothes and sneakers, but I dress age appropriate for where I live. Meaning no high price luxury brands or loud colors. It just looks sad when old people try to keep up with trends.

The most fun you’ll have is between your mid 20s and early 30s. After that, your focus should be on living a long and healthy life and if you have kids, setting them up to be successful.

That’s what I’m on. Last Saturday I was up at 4 AM to be on the road by 5 to get my daughter to her volleyball tournament in Orange County.

I survived and experienced a lot and I got my fun in while I was still young enough to enjoy it. I couldn’t imagine doing the things I used to do at my age. I’d be a clown. Out here smoking weed all day, drinking, doing yay and smashing broads I just met.

I’d rather go OT with my wife or out to dinner. My oldest is about to be in college for pre med in a year. My focus is mostly my kids and family.

 

[boogers]

i dont know

get off my lawn

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

30's - enjoy social events that revolve around people i know or the friends of people i know - gatherings at people's houses, group trips, or private birthday parties is fun
20's - loved being out in a crowd of randos - big club/party, festival, big events was fun

 

[chineebai]

30s is more about experiences so traveling, unique events, food, hobbies,

 

[F*ckthemkids]

I've been married for a long time, so no. I have nothing to say on the quality of women or one night stands. I will say this though. The level of fukked up I got in my 30's surpassed my 20's. We all pretty much got married in our mid to late 20's. We all had more money so we took more friend trips. Traveled more just in general. More concerts, More events.It was almost like my friend group was trying to relive some lost glory or some shyt. It slowed down near the tail end when people started having kids or more kids. I'm just into my 40's now, so who knows...I will tell you this. Aside from a few things I don't feel much different mentally than I did when I was younger. I'm aware that I'm older. I'm aware that there are certain expectations at my age, and things that would have been overlooked then, that wouldn't be now. But breh you're not going to age how you think you are. Keep yourself in reasonable shape. Take care of your money, and stay the hell away from baggage/drama, and you'll be fine.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Not gonna cap it's still the same, never had problems socially or getting women. I go out every weekend and have fun

 

[skokiaan]

i dont know

get off my lawn

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

No more clubbing. More family shyt. Simple shyt.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

I'm in my 20s living like I'm in my 40s. Sick of hearing how I'm so mature for my age

 

[Voice of Reason]

Not gonna cap it's still the same, never had problems socially or getting women. I go out every weekend and have fun

Exactly

 

[Voice of Reason]

There’s a big difference between 32 and 38 in terms of what your social life might look like.

 

[Sinnerman]

As someone who turns 30 in October, I don't imagine my early thirties at least will be much different from my twenties, lol

Still going to be going out partying every weekend. Just have more money in my pockets now

 

[Spectre]

Early 30s here

20s is very random. Fun can be anywhere with anyone at anytime. It's really up to you and your budget.

30s is more measured. Fun is planned with people you know. Less quantity but more quality.

Go from concerts and house parties to Brunches and experience-trips

For me it's more about finding yourself and finding the right person to have those journeys together with

 

[Sad Bunny]

Buying a house and doing upgrades and various projects

Biking and hiking

Traveling

Trying better restaurants

Weekend trips

Couples massages

Dinner and movie dates

Couples activities with other married folks

Couples trips with other married folks

Spoiling my nieces and nephews

My 30s are glorious