What Has Caused Modern Women To Become So Delusional?

[filial_piety]

Men and women have always had general expectations of one another…but i think women took a turn with the internet…alot of them exist in a circle jerk of blog “advice“ websites with these ridiculous cliches and philosophies that they’ve made up in their heads from a Disney fantasy, even if they’re built like a roll of nickels…

I always see these lists of “must haves” zero sum expectations that are just completely inflexible…certain incomes, a certain height, a certain approach in a very specific place..with very specific looks, mannerisms etc…I mean you always had high maintenance women…but they were basically high end celebrities…these days just about every boogaloo whale with the slightest curve has a laundry list of “you betters”..and it all circulates on these blogs and websites where they feed one another

 

[Unfiltered]

Is it social media? Feminism? Or have they always been this way and we're just getting more exposure to it??

both combined with capitalism, companies got 2 people to target instead of 1 men).

business standpoint it makes sense, more money due to more ideas to create and capitalize.

 

[Scaaar]

Social media.

women mistake “likes” and story views for nikkas who are willing to cuff. This attention makes them think their value is higher than what it is.

Sidebar: Any women doing those “send me an anonymous message” ig story posts are for the streets. no exceptions.

I just noticed that the other day. That need for attention is their Achilles heel. Like what do you get from that especially if you're in a relationship. They just can't help shooting themselves in the foot.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Men aren't these absolutes you're implying. There's a huge gap of regular guys you're ignoring for women to have to die alone

So men are only either cavemen that are huffing and puffing with only disappointing sex and insecurities to offer OR 6ft 6figure ballers with hearts of gold that love to travel and splurge on everything a woman could ask for including a family.

Stop it

Most people are average af and will settle down with their counterpart.

No u cannot have it all. Everything has a cost that's why we grow and priorities change.

Women outnumber men, and that’s compounded in our community by homicide and incarceration rates and death period as they grow older. So even not taking into account any other factors, this secret cache of men that men claim are there simply aren’t when it comes to raw numbers.

Then when you take those out of the equations and add up all other factors like men being just as broken as the women they complaining about, what I’m telling you is that a lot of women just don’t see the juice being worth the squeeze. No matter how much one may claim chicks are being delusional, they not. They actually keeping it 100%. They telling the world with their actions what they want and don’t want and many just aren’t gonna play ball.

As for having it all, it is possible if your “all” is within the parameters of your own reach. Some people’s “all” includes fancy cribs and cars and the like. Other people’s “alls” are far more humble and totally reachable. If a woman plays her cards right she can have just about whatever she wants within reason. That goes for men too. Doesn’t mean it won’t take work b/c it will. But there’s a lot of opportunity out here as well.

 

[Wild self]

Social media.

Tupac in a Business Suit

 

[Astroslik]

Social media.

women mistake “likes” and story views for nikkas who are willing to cuff. This attention makes them think their value is higher than what it is.

Sidebar: Any women doing those “send me an anonymous message” ig story posts are for the streets. no exceptions.

Facts

She’s basically inviting herself for the streets

 

[3rdWorld]

Their mothers who raised them.

 

[hatealot]

When life added the sort filter on social media. These women have choices , no longer can a man isolate a woman and make her think she has no choices anymore.

They can do bad all by themselves

 

[FeverPitch2]

It's always been this way.
All the way back to fairytale princes.
Romance novels.
Rom-coms.
The sister on The Real World and her list of 200 requirements for a nikka to date her.
Stop blaming everything on social media.

 

[High Art]

(Social media + simps^2) * feminism^entitlement

 

[Problematic Pat]

Social media/feminism and lack of accountability by women in general.

 

[Ozymandeas]

Current world population: 7.9 billion
Male population to female: 50.5% to 49.5%

God naturally made near equal amounts of women for men because we all eventually will pair bond and will seek to nest with one person. The high value man every woman wants will eventually marry his high value wife (I hate that term btw) and have a family. If women want to ignore their match for a chance to be the side piece or a single mother with kids who wonder why their dads don't come around, let them. @Booksnrain be having me cracking up talmbout women dont see the point in settling for a certain man as if the man they want would ever publicly claim them. It works both ways

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Hoes is still getting piped by average nikkas everyday

 

[rabbid]

Women outnumber men, and that’s compounded in our community by homicide and incarceration rates and death period as they grow older. So even not taking into account any other factors, this secret cache of men that men claim are there simply aren’t when it comes to raw numbers.

Then when you take those out of the equations and add up all other factors like men being just as broken as the women they complaining about, what I’m telling you is that a lot of women just don’t see the juice being worth the squeeze. No matter how much one may claim chicks are being delusional, they not. They actually keeping it 100%. They telling the world with their actions what they want and don’t want and many just aren’t gonna play ball.

As for having it all, it is possible if your “all” is within the parameters of your own reach. Some people’s “all” includes fancy cribs and cars and the like. Other people’s “alls” are far more humble and totally reachable. If a woman plays her cards right she can have just about whatever she wants within reason. That goes for men too. Doesn’t mean it won’t take work b/c it will. But there’s a lot of opportunity out here as well.

some of your posts are mad contradictory, but honestly reading them is always a healthy reminder that there will always be some women's opinions and views that men simply don't agree with. i'm not really here to agree with everything that a woman has to say, but what's more important is cooperation.

i personally see alot of uncooperative women, single or otherwise.. a girl could have the unicorn she's always dreamed of and still find a way to have higher expectations from him. earlier you spoke of core needs, but i don't think women and men have the same core needs from the opposite sex... that's the whole point of this thread. but hey, that's probably just my perspective as a man and I'm aware of that.

 

[MoveForward]

Look at the folks in here acting like these delusions have always been the case. Also, most men don’t even have standards, most nikkas fukk with who is fukking with them. I know this is Wakanda but black women… Nvrmnd