I can't speak for men but I can speak for myself and I could be a "provider" for some broad but I'm not and won't be anytime soon because I'm not lookin for kids anytime soon.
To be honest most women aren't worth having a provider unless it's a well below average lookin male or a cat that's desperate for a family
-out of shape
-can't / barely cook
-can't talk about shyt
-not funny
-emotionally scarred
-etc...
Which wouldn't be a problem for the fat short weird guy from hr but y'all will have several negatives out of that list and want a nikka with the exact opposite then wonder why you got pumped and dumped when you thought it was somethin special.
I can cook and clean my crib myself so what would I need to provide for...? Some back shots
I mean when expectations come down to reality after the "nikkas holler" effect and Internet likes/simpin cool off with age you realize there's someone in your lane more suited for you that wouldn't mind providing for you. Only thing I can provide for now is a job application and some hard dikk