What is it with women making the same mistake and becoming single mothers?

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Long term marriages is kinda understandable, y'all been together for 5 and 10 years. shyt just don't work, at least y'all tried. But these women out here having a kid by a dude and then breaking up within a year. I've met a couple of these women and had no plans in getting in a serious relationship with none of em. They should just get back with the father and work that shyt out if you ask me.

On the contrary, dudes learn hella quick not to simp and wait 3 months for sex. There's gotta be a tipping point where these women smarten up and make better choices in who they get pregnant by. The consequences can be harsh, especially if they already struggling.

 

[Problematic Pat]

Because they believe their p*ssy is different from the millions of other women who failed in playing that game.

 

[Rawtid]

Sex leads to children. Sex is the mistake people keep making. Not only that, most don’t care about repercussions to sex so they don’t consider anything more than their orgasm.

People who have sex, especially unprotected, should mentally prepare to parent because it could happen. Sex is not a recreational activity. Don’t have it if you don’t want the responsibility of the bad parts.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Sex leads to children. Sex is the mistake people keep making. Not only that, most don’t care about repercussions to sex so they don’t consider anything more than their orgasm.

People who have sex, especially unprotected, should mentally prepare to parent because it could happen. Sex is not a recreational activity. Don’t have it if you don’t want the responsibility of the bad parts.

You'd be surprised how many teens have raw sex. I knew way too many dumbasses as a teen, male and female smfh.

 

[KingTxo]

Most women in my area claim they are looking for mr right and the perfect guy to fall in love wit, yet they be in the club and having one night stands wit the dude that got 4 kids at 25 .If a chick wants to live her life by all means good for her. But there are risk and dangers of not thinking when they be letting dudes smash raw.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

One of my homegirls got pregnant from her long distance boyfriend when he came to visit her in California. He has no plans of moving out there and they are currently broken up.


She got dreams of opening her own brunch/restaurant spot out there but I fear she just put those dreams on hold.

Literally the last chick I would expect this would happen to especially since she has a example of what not to do from her younger sister.

I just don’t understand the mindset.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Because they believe their p*ssy is different from the millions of other women who failed in playing that game.

This thread closed

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Long-term = 5/10years??

For marriage???

That explains a LOT.​

 

[Finesse]

Female Nature, Human Nature, Nature's Way.

Dont even worry about it. I'll tell ya this much tho. What they are doing isnt a "mistake". They are fully aware of what is going down.

 

[Doobie Doo]

Because they believe their p*ssy is different from the millions of other women who failed in playing that game.

It's not even that. Its just women want what they want without thinking about the long term causes and effects their actions are going to have on them, the dude and their kids.

It's like most lack the ability to see realistically what the next 5-10 years are going to be because no matter how bleak, they will always put some rose colored spin at the end of it where they always win.

 

[Raphaello]

It's a culture that doesn't appreciate the role of husbands and fathers. I don't blame them cuz when you see tons of single mothers out there it's easy to convince yourself that fathers just arent that necessary. Unfortunately the people who get hurt the most by this decision is their sons.

 

[DON MA MA]

They don't care, neither do the fathers. Neither does anyone else really.
Nobody really cares about the mindset these people have just like no one really cares why poor people are poor. It's just a circle jerk of critics and "it makes no sense". If its not ur kid mind ur biz.
Or vote in politicians who share your view. Donate to non profits targeting this issue.
Outside of that