I am 28 and I have been struggling with turning 30 lately because it is around the corner. I see my boys getting married and it still seems so boring to me to eat dinner and stare at someone's forehead for the next 50 or 60 years. I want to stay single and have fun but I am wondering from the dudes in their 30's and up in here if it gets better or I am looking at a depressing road ahead. Will there still be options out there? can i still play around and fukk hot chicks? Do you still have fun? What happens to men as we get older?
What is your 30's like?
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Doobie Doo
Veteran
Can't speak for everyone but it your 30s are not better than your 20s u are a loser of such epic proportions. The youth of your 20s with more wisdom and money.
You work and come home tired to deal with your spouse and your kids.
Driving them to their sporting events or concert practices and shyt.
Your girl develops an unhealthy love of wine, as if it's not the same as a guy chugging a six pack just because her glass has a stem on it.
You use your kids as an excuse to not see friends or family.
Your social media feed is nothing but baby pictures and "inspirational quotes" that subtly tell the world all the bullshyt you're dealing with (if you can read between the lines)
Bills.
Bills.
Bills.
Your girl watches HGTV for fukkin hours on end and now you gotta buy sand paper and paint the new antique accent chair she bought.
Bills.
Bills.
Bills.
You view the youthful idealism of your 20s as misguided and you get a bit jaded/annoyed with young people.
But look at the bright side, you just dropped some epic shyt talking in your fantasy league and your girl gives you the p*ssy 4 times a week.
Driving them to their sporting events or concert practices and shyt.
Your girl develops an unhealthy love of wine, as if it's not the same as a guy chugging a six pack just because her glass has a stem on it.
You use your kids as an excuse to not see friends or family.
Your social media feed is nothing but baby pictures and "inspirational quotes" that subtly tell the world all the bullshyt you're dealing with (if you can read between the lines)
Bills.
Bills.
Bills.
Your girl watches HGTV for fukkin hours on end and now you gotta buy sand paper and paint the new antique accent chair she bought.
Bills.
Bills.
Bills.
You view the youthful idealism of your 20s as misguided and you get a bit jaded/annoyed with young people.
But look at the bright side, you just dropped some epic shyt talking in your fantasy league and your girl gives you the p*ssy 4 times a week.
Im more than halfway done wit my 30s
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Im 31 and coming from a single man here are pro's and con's
-You don't have to share with anyone (if your single,if you got a gf don't let her move in it can cause stress)
-Bills,Bills and Bills (You rather work and make $ then not to work at all)
-Only kid in your life is your God-Child,niece or nephew.
-You can date who you want,when you want.
--You should be established in your career if not,you can hop around as long as you have no wife or kids
-You can be older and still look younger if you eat right,exercise
-That woman that rejected you in your 20's,would gladly date you now
-You can take a trip anywhere.Travel breh
-You should be financially smarter. Don't go out buy 10 pairs of Jordans when your rent is due
-When you play basketball wit hthe young ones your jumper comes in handy.All that cutting and crossing over will hurt your aching knees
-You don't have to share with anyone (if your single,if you got a gf don't let her move in it can cause stress)
-Bills,Bills and Bills (You rather work and make $ then not to work at all)
-Only kid in your life is your God-Child,niece or nephew.
-You can date who you want,when you want.
--You should be established in your career if not,you can hop around as long as you have no wife or kids
-You can be older and still look younger if you eat right,exercise
-That woman that rejected you in your 20's,would gladly date you now
-You can take a trip anywhere.Travel breh
-You should be financially smarter. Don't go out buy 10 pairs of Jordans when your rent is due
-When you play basketball wit hthe young ones your jumper comes in handy.All that cutting and crossing over will hurt your aching knees
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
I made a commitment years ago not to be 
so I became a gymaholic
30's been good to a breh, women choose heavy, money is straight
just keep your shyt tight
so I became a gymaholic
30's been good to a breh, women choose heavy, money is straight
just keep your shyt tight
BaldingSoHard
Banned
Severely underrated poster.
timothy_strickland
BRUHZ
Man, if I get to my 30s,(10 years away) I dont want to live like @Raul mentioned.
I want my future 30s to be like my early 20s now, but with WAY more money , stability. I wont work a boring dreadful 9-5 with wife and kids, and will date easily 18 yo.
30s should be the prime of a man's life. Not a life full of routine, cynicism, regrets and boring ass wife and kids and life and bills. Tho I know I will have to make new friends. My cousins are 35 and they have zero social life because of their kids, and their friends also have kids or are busy as fukk with their work/relationship.
I want my future 30s to be like my early 20s now, but with WAY more money , stability. I wont work a boring dreadful 9-5 with wife and kids, and will date easily 18 yo.
30s should be the prime of a man's life. Not a life full of routine, cynicism, regrets and boring ass wife and kids and life and bills. Tho I know I will have to make new friends. My cousins are 35 and they have zero social life because of their kids, and their friends also have kids or are busy as fukk with their work/relationship.
I feel like how wood harris felt in paid in full after he got shot
"My body diff'rent. Im breavin diff'rent. Im out"
"My body diff'rent. Im breavin diff'rent. Im out"
I was with a chick for 7 years & it was just too much & we ended it. It sucked at first but being a 30yr old Single black male with no kids a nice car money and your own spot ... Is the shyt. I stay at the gym and look better then all my friends who now look like uncles after developing grown man body. Girls always think I'm like 22-23. I stay in beautiful ass Los Angeles & am doing entertainment... my life is like a mini version of Entourage right now & honestly I don't miss the headaches... I did everything right & just don't want to deal with another headache for a while so I'm good. It's really the best years for a man if you didn't fukk up too bad in your 20's...
Hahaha
Yep. It's true you can get better with age.
Look at the year Big Sean has been having compared to when HOF dropped
this nikka just described my life to a T(I'm 34)