What the longest and most serious relationship/situation you've had with a woman with kids? Pros and Cons

[Stuntone]

One of my ex had a 3 years ago. She was beautiful and a little wild from Baltimore. But we got a long great. Almost wife. She cooked, cleaned and fukked good. After about 6 months, I met her son and I was like he bad. Im gone whoop his azz. She was like " nahhh.... youll have to call his father."

That was our first disagreement.

I thought to myself, what i look like calling a man to handle a situation in my house.

I liked her alot, we almost had a child together, but i opted out when I found my new girlfriend.

Im kicking it with a 26 year old now, great girl, 2 kids, looks like a petite Eva from top model. But them kids having hare running around like crazy. They be in the background crying and all type of shyt. Im selfish, I need all of her attention.

 

[TL15]

Trying to get some head and her kids keep opening the door

 

[Luke Cage]

Trying to get some head and her kids keep opening the door

is that monica Lewinsky?

 

[Stuntone]

Trying to get some head and her kids keep opening the door

 

[Stuntone]

is that monica Lewinsky?

I thought it was Ricki Lake

 

[jilla82]

it can work but you have to realize youre playing life on hard mode.

both of yall gotta be 100% locked in with how to handle the kid...
and the baby daddy gotta be 100% cool.

I agree with much of the internet male talking points when it comes to avoiding single mothers...
but thats mostly for young guys under like 35.

Once youre older than that its almost impossible to avoid a woman with kids...
and in some cases they are better because they probably wont want more kids.

Any chick w/o kids in her 30s is going to start pushing you to have kids quickly.

 

[Brolic]

Relationship with a single mother?

 

[Miggs]

About 10-12 months.
Pros : Moms had an incredible body/puss
She was home all the time,never went and cooked alot and was good at it.
Never bothered me about giving her another one,was willing to do anything sexual no restrictions.


Cons : I had to play with her daughter alot waiitng on her cooking or cleaning,it was pretty boring after awhile...she never wanted to go out she wanted me to come over and cook and fukk after putting her daughter to bed...Other con for me was she lived an hour away.Long drive to and from for a few rounds and she didnt want me sleeping over.

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

Sighs....

Pros:

• Shes well receptive and submissive (I mean ...that's the red carpet for the father that stepped in category)
• 9 times out of ten has her own space with the joey or joeys
• Well seasoned since she's not about that life anymore (looking to settle possibly)
• The joey or joeys will appreciate you a bit more (given that you could be the father that stepped in)

Cons:

• Baby father drama
• Baby father could get back in the picture
• The joey or joeys will start shytting on you or question where's the real father
• Gotta sneak a fukk in
• More baggage to carry with your own shyt

As somebody that was involved with a single mother many moons ago, the grim reality will become clear as day and it is up to you to either press on and bear with her, or embrace a time of misery.

shyt, NGL...if I could go back into time....I wouldn't even bother because that shyt still messes with my conscious as I loved her, but knew it was the right thing to do for both of our directions.

TLDR: you either embrace the sweet with the sour, or deal with consequences as time goes by.