What would cause men and women to hate each other?

[Neuromancer]

There are a lot of male vs female threads on ther coli. We got vitriol from both sides, misogyny and even misandry. Now there are societal causes for everything, but those don't account for the personal experiences that turn prejudices' into full blown hate. Yes I've participated in some foolish shyt too on here, but in all seriousness. What are your personal experiences and what can be done to assuage the anger we have in here personally. (Please no sweeping edicts, this is about personal healing.) Commence the healing.

 

[Neuromancer]

@InDePickWest @TL16

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Entitlement, people not being able to get what they think they deserve. That's all there is to it. I use to be bitter too, things change I started getting what I desired so it all went away. I don't get what I want all the time but enough to not carry any bitterness around.

 

[Groanman]

Because women think with their vaginaseses.

 

[Neuromancer]

Entitlement, people not being able to get what they think they deserve. That's all there is to it. I use to be bitter too, things change I started getting what I desired so it all went away. I don't get what I want all the time but enough to not carry any bitterness around.

What do you think can be done on both sides?

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

What do you think can be done on both sides?

People should be more realistic with their standards

 

[CinnaSlim]

Hate <- Fear <- Pain <- Loss or Lack -> Blame -> Guilt/Shame -> Punishment -> Resentment/Rage

 

[Neuromancer]

People should be more realistic with their standards

Makes sense.

 

[Neuromancer]

Hate <- Fear <- Pain <- Loss or Lack -> Blame -> Guilt/Shame -> Punishment -> Resentment/Rage

This looks like the motion for a fatality in mortal kombat. One time for those of us who are slow.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I definitely don't hate women, but a lot of them be with some bs playing games, playing hard to get and in general not being honest and upfront about sh.

I don't lie to women about anything and I don't play games or any of that nonsense.

 

[Prynce]

I don't blame women for any of my problems or hang ups
Don't resent or hate them one bit



I'm too introspective to blame another person for my issues

 

[Neuromancer]

I don't blame women for any of my problems or hang ups
Don't resent or hate them one bit

I'm too introspective to blame another person for my issues

You're an intelligent young brotha. How do you propose the ones who are angry fix their situation?

 

[Mess World]

Cointelpro infiltrating the feminist movement in the 60s is one reason

Trying to stop the black power movements by telling women in the movement that they don't need their men

 

[Prynce]

You're an intelligent young brotha. How do you propose the ones who are angry fix their situation?

Stop looking to place blame and just accept things for what they are.

Get ride of your ego and don't be scared to take a L.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

feminism