What would yall do in this situation?

[Scuti]

So a couple weeks ago I matched on Tinder with this girl that i went to highschool with. We never really talked back then but she admitted she had the biggest crush on me and still kind of does. So im lookin at this like a layup, get her snap and number, talk back and forth a couple days...regular shyt We been talkin almost every day since, she even told me some really personal shyt that i dont think she would tell most people

So where it gets weird is we both made it clear we just in a fwb situation and we been talkin sexual, but she keep duckin me when i ask her to chill Like she conveniently always got something else shes doin. I told her straight up from the jump im not tolerating any games and she agreed but its startin to seem like thats exactly what shes doin.

Im about to throw her to the bushes and not say another word to her but part of me thinks im misreading the situation. What do yall think

 

[Neuromancer]

Bushes. If you made an agreement and she's now ducking,don't waste either of your time.

 

[Thanos]

Charge it

 

[Taadow]

Tell her to beat it.

 

[...o3]

 that other friend with benefits is benefiting the hell out of her, leaving her no additional benefits to share with you.

i wouldn't ghost her, but i wouldn't play her so close either. fall back and sling dikk somewhere else, she'll contact you when her and ol' boy go on break.

 

[FLATOP]

She has a boyfriend and youre a emotional fling

Now you could still become a physical fling if you stop being thirsty.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I would play the long game.
But I always play the long game anyway so .

 

[Money Be Green]

Be patience Danielson

 

[Rell Lauren]

Even though y'all have known each other since high school, I would have asked to meet earlier than you did just to get it out of the way. Not talking about a smash either fyi. Meet up for drinks or dinner after work to break the ice. Too much texting and calling isn't a good thing.

 

[old pig]

I wouldn’t stress it or make no big deal about cutting her off...she’ll come around if she ready...idk how old y’all are but for her to be crushing on you since h.s. I’m inclined to believe she wanted more than FWB status even tho she said she was cool w/ it

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Charge her to the game. She only wanted attention to her single mother ass.

 

[killacal]

I would play the long game.
But I always play the long game anyway so .

bald so hard in the friendzone where youll find me

 

[BaldingSoHard]

bald so hard in the friendzone where youll find me

Friendzone .

You know how they say men and women can't be friends because one of them will always want more?
The secret is just not to be the one who wants more. Then nature takes it's course.

 

[GnauzBookOfRhymes]

Youre not in the friend zone. Women know who theyre going to friend zone VERY QUICKLY. And once they know, they will rarely if ever talk sexually with him. she knows by admitting she had a crush on you that you have the "upper hand," and she's trying to save a little face by hoping you "pursue" her even a little bit...if you guys didnt know each other before you wouldve been fukked multiple times, but women get irrational sometimes...i mean think about it, you found each other on TINDER and she decides this is when she wants to be "courted." I wouldn't worry, she still wants to fuk and eventually she'll break down....you are at a fork in the road...ignore her and write her off until she decides to kinda crawl back (which she will since she already admitted she has/had a crush on you) and you'll get to fuk once or twice. OR take her out but DON'T PRESS her to fuk or really anything sexually/physically. Matter of fact, take her out earlier in the day and have some p*ssy already scheduled for later so you dont get tempted. You will own the p*ssy after that. all you invested is an hour of entertaining her so she can convince herself she's not a whore for fukking guys off tinder.

 

[KyokushinKarateMan]

From personal experience, the second and third options are your choices. If you don’t think she’ll take it the wrong way, ask straight out to get some p*ssy. That, has worked many times for me in similar situations. But the real deal tried and true answer that usually always works for me in your type of situation is playing the long game. It usually never, ever fails. Just have patience and keep her around. The key is to have another thottie to preoccupy your attention while playing the long game with this one.