What would you do if your fiancee didnt want to take your last name?

[Ohene]

Curious what the brehs would do

For me it would make it very hard to marry a girl and would be a bit of a slap in the face. Cant pick and choose. If I am doing the traditional bs of buying the ring, having the wedding etc. then she gotta take my name. Only reason I would consider her not taking it is because my own last name is hyphenated (my grandparents). That was common in Ghana due to certain last names being very common.

If we doing a court house wedding then fine she can keep her last name

 

[2 one 3]

Not marry her…

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

 

[Ohene]

Not marry her…

I am surprised at how many ppl online seem to not care. Feminism really has caused a generation of weak men

 

[Windows 91]

I told her I didn't care but she's in the process of changing hers. She changed it on her Facebook and I'm not gonna lie, it had me feeling good seeing it in writing.

 

[Rosecrans]

I used to care now IF I ever get married I’d prefer she doesn’t so she can’t dirty up my name

My name known from hood to hood in cali

 

[Elim Garak]

I really wouldn't care. I would be more concerned about if this is a good person with good intentions if I got married.

 

[Rosecrans]

I used to care now IF I ever get married I’d prefer she doesn’t so she can’t dirty up my name

My name known from hood to hood in cali

@Windows 91 you got a problem with my message, cracka?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

She’s not willing to take your name, but you’re willing to potentially lose half of your assets?

 

[The ADD]

Recently married, she hasn’t changed it yet because it’s a process to do so.

It would depend on the rationale but usually the reason is also why yall may not be marriage compatible. You should know where that stands before buying the ring.

 

[patscorpio]

Thats a non negotiable for me..keep your name and I keep the ring

 

[jdubnyce]

My wife understood from the get go
Didn't even have to have a debate about it
She gladly became Mrs Jdub

 

[Ohene]

Thats a non negotiable for me..keep your name and I keep the ring

Exactly

 

[Taadow]

Not marry her…

Thread over

 

[drederick tatum]

If it's that much of a make or break for people, perhaps you should have discussed it with her before she became your fiancée