
I take it you’re unmarried with no kids?If you select the right person neither are a trap. They are both a huge blessing with infinite upside. It’s all how you think about it.
Finding a partner where you both contribute to one another’s life is the ultimate reward. Kids growing up in that nurturing environment allow you to see the best in humanity, constantly, in your own household. Could go on a long diatribe about the benefits but I won’t.
And by the way, I’m not saying either aren’t difficult at times or take work.
I take it you’re unmarried with no kids?

What if those kids got a bad aura!?You can agree to walk away from a marriage but kids are the real till death do us part.
