What's A Bigger Trap? Marriage Or Having Kids?

Umoja

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Neither.

Having kids has the biggest potential to go south. You get into a bad marriage, you can get on with your life once you cut your losses.

Having kids will permanently change your life and tie you to someone toxic for life.
 

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If you select the right person neither are a trap. They are both a huge blessing with infinite upside. It’s all how you think about it.

Finding a partner where you both contribute to one another’s life is the ultimate reward. Kids growing up in that nurturing environment allow you to see the best in humanity, constantly, in your own household. Could go on a long diatribe about the benefits but I won’t.

And by the way, I’m not saying either aren’t difficult at times or take work.
 

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If you select the right person neither are a trap. They are both a huge blessing with infinite upside. It’s all how you think about it.

Finding a partner where you both contribute to one another’s life is the ultimate reward. Kids growing up in that nurturing environment allow you to see the best in humanity, constantly, in your own household. Could go on a long diatribe about the benefits but I won’t.

And by the way, I’m not saying either aren’t difficult at times or take work.
I take it you’re unmarried with no kids?
 
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