Kids.
What's A Bigger Trap? Marriage Or Having Kids?
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Rocket Scientist
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Imagine dropping your kid off at the ex house and paying that ex in child support close to 20 years.
Kiyoshi-Dono
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No you can’t just move on from a bad marriage
A bad marriage could leave you crippled financially and emotionally
I know nikkas that’s been divorced 10 years now and they are just getting back to them old selves
My divorce didn’t leave me financially drained but emotionally I was a hull
I didn’t give a fukk about a bytch or what she had going on
Literally the first date I was on demon time
Look I’m just trying to fukk, I’m not concerned about none of the shyt you talking bytch
Some were down and others called me a dog
I literally had to look in the mirror and say
You can’t keep doing this
Both scenarios have major consequences but being a father is the biggest trap because you are in charge of raising a whole human being and hoping you don’t fukk them up in the end
But don’t downplay a bad marriage fam unless you’ve been through it
You're an idiot breh.No you can’t just move on from a bad marriage
A bad marriage could leave you crippled financially and emotionally
I know nikkas that’s been divorced 10 years now and they are just getting back to them old selves
My divorce didn’t leave me financially drained but emotionally I was a hull
I didn’t give a fukk about a bytch or what she had going on
Literally the first date I was on demon time
Look I’m just trying to fukk, I’m not concerned about none of the shyt you talking bytch
Some were down and others called me a dog
I literally had to look in the mirror and say
You can’t keep doing this
Both scenarios have major consequences but being a father is the biggest trap because you are in charge of raising a whole human being and hoping you don’t fukk them up in the end
But don’t downplay a bad marriage fam unless you’ve been through it
No where did I say a bad marriage is incapable of leaving you financially crippled.
It gets more risky the more you have to lose. Ergo some dumb 20 year old getting married should be able to bounce back from getting divorced 2 years later. Having a kid will cripple him more as that is a life long commitment.
JuvenileHell
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It's plastic time 
Contrary. Married for 6 years. Been with wifey for 16 years. 2 kids from her, both under 5.
We spent a decade getting to know one another, getting our degrees, traveling. Decided to get married after we finished school. Had a kid a year later. I know this isn’t how it usually goes, but my life is good. Hers is too! We talk and try to understand where we both are in the relationship. We each make a commitment to stay. That’s my life partner.
FreshFromATL
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I see so many black successful marriages in real life. Come on the coli and cats all 
Lol.
Lol.
Fillerguy
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I can't imagine a grown man making the decision to engage in either, only to turn around to say he was "trapped". What are you a mouse?
Both sucks. I got an Unc who passed ten years ago. Damn wife left him and his kids turned on him something serious. Then they turned on the whole family and went rouge.
Roger king
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There is no way a sensible grown man should see having children or being married as a trap, the issue is when you pursue promiscuous women only caring about the bag and material things
MajesticLion
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Trick questions.
RickyDiBiase
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Brehs like that need to be slapped upside the fukking head....we can go outside our cribs right now and sadly see a breh living in a tent under a freeway or eating out a damn trash can like a animal.
but having kids is being trapped. FOH
Rocket Scientist
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"To death do you part" that can be a trap in itself.
