What's the stigma on "motherless" kids brehs?

[T-K-G]

I've never heard anyone ever use this

Typically when a son or daughter is out of control it's because "the father isn't there"

But I've never heard of it happening the other way around



Does that mean single fathers are better at raising kids or does it just seem like that because there's way more single mothers so the percentages of fukkin up is higher for them

 

[InDePickWest]

Don't date girls that were raised by single fathers. I'm one of them and I've had nikkas in tears right in front of me because apparently I'm 'heartless'. The ones I met tend to be very emotionally disconnected and too goal oriented to the point where nothing matters but themselves and their achievements.

Basically..we'll pull a nikka on a nikka


Not proud but I just don't know how to be affectionate.

 

[Prynce]

 

[AmenhotepIV]

The village raises the child

I see alot of good people that have both one or none

I just hope to be part of the solution not the problem

Great thread

 

[T-K-G]

Don't date girls that were raised by single fathers. I'm one of them and I've had nikkas in tears right in front of me because apparently I'm 'heartless'. The ones I met tend to be very emotionally disconnected and too goal oriented to the point where nothing matters but themselves and their achievements.

Basically..we'll pull a nikka on a nikka


Not proud but I just don't know how to be affectionate.

I'd rather my daughter be out here maximizing her potential and setting goals for herself than just growing up tryna find a nikka to latch on to


I salute your old man I'd buy breh a beer if i could and ask him for tips

 

[Saiyajin]

i knew someone in this situation

he was a goddamn SIMP

 

[T-K-G]

i knew someone in this situation

he was a goddamn SIMP

U think it came from bad parenting tho?

 

[Saiyajin]

U think it came from bad parenting tho?

i guess he felt abandoned by his own mom so he spends his life searching for a mother's love

 

[Meadow]

first and foremost, the idea of 'fatherless' children is heavily racialized. it's a stereotype implicated exclusively on black communities which is (and historically has been) an attack on black masculinity via infantilization

the idea of the "motherless" home exists to a degree too, and usually involves other fukked up archetypes about black women (hyper-sexualization, addiction, mental health, etc.)

 

[HeavyTheDon]

They are crazy as fukk... Every child needs motherly love, without it they go nuts.

 

[T-K-G]

first and foremost, the idea of 'fatherless' children is heavily racialized. it's a stereotype implicated exclusively on black communities which is (and historically has been) an attack on black masculinity via infantilization

the idea of the "motherless" home exists to a degree too, and usually involves other fukked up archetypes about black women (hyper-sexualization, addiction, mental health, etc.)

real spit

 

[T-K-G]

Bump

 

[SheWantTheD]

Don't date girls that were raised by single fathers. I'm one of them and I've had nikkas in tears right in front of me because apparently I'm 'heartless'. The ones I met tend to be very emotionally disconnected and too goal oriented to the point where nothing matters but themselves and their achievements.

Basically..we'll pull a nikka on a nikka


Not proud but I just don't know how to be affectionate.

Your father wasn't affectionate with you? Aren't fathers more affectionate with their daughters than their sons?

 

[Sleepy Walker]

Ask that fakkit @Reinscarf

 

[Ashley Banks]

Don't date girls that were raised by single fathers. I'm one of them and I've had nikkas in tears right in front of me because apparently I'm 'heartless'. The ones I met tend to be very emotionally disconnected and too goal oriented to the point where nothing matters but themselves and their achievements.

Basically..we'll pull a nikka on a nikka


Not proud but I just don't know how to be affectionate.

Your dad didn't show you affection?