What's up with dudes assuming being nice to a woman means you're flirting with them?

[Dont@Me]

Dudes always thinking you're hitting on every girl you talk to because they couldn't fathom having small talk or being nice to strangers of the opposite sex

For example, If I see someone with bad form in the gym, imma approach and correct em most of the time. If it happens to be some young PAWG, dudes will smirk at me like "I know what you doin ", when it ain't even like that all the time . I can hold two thoughts in my head at the same time by noticing her beauty but not really gettin at her like that and treating her like a normal person

A lot of these dudes wouldn't even dare cold approach, but a lot of them need to start with just having basic conversations without any ulterior motive...and this is coming from an ULTIMATE perv

 

[Commish]

OP..

Who knows what's up with them. You know your intentions, so that's all that matters. Besides, sow hat if you were flirting with these women?? Isn't that what men are supposed to do?? Many women refuse to cols approach and expect a man to do it, so what's the issue when a man does it? A man can't afford to assume that the woman he is approaching may nor be interested. He doesn't read minds!

If a woman have an issue with a man flirting, then she need to deal with it! If a man crosses the line, then that's another issue altogether!

 

[Da_Eggman]

Haters

 

[rabbid]

exactly bruh… but I do be flirting but if they don’t respond well then I say I was just being social

 

[Mr. Negative]

A lot of times, people assume you'll always have the same motives that they do.

So if cats only think about being nice to a girl when they're trying to get some attention/p*ssy, they'll assume you're doing the same.

Pay attention to projection.

 

[VegetasHairline]

 

[Dont@Me]

A lot of times, people assume you'll always have the same motives that they do.

So if cats only think about being nice to a girl when they're trying to get some attention/p*ssy, they'll assume you're doing the same.

Pay attention to projection.

That's exactly my point. that means these people literally will talk to a woman if they wanna fukk them. They probably wouldn't even utter a word to a female cashier unless they'd pipe