I'm talking about women seeking out broken men, a$$holes, and bad boys and trying to change them or fix them.
There's two things I don't get about it. First why? And second what do they hope to turn these projects into? A nice guy? An a$$hole with a heart of gold?
women like projects, they want to be the ones to say to their girls "when i met jaymon he was a player, he cheated on all his previous girls, but ever since he was with me he changed". Sadly women don't realize that men rarely change, but women live in a fantasy world of the "one" "true love", and romantic comedies.
"Seven out of ten women have given their man a makeover, altering everything from his closet to his eating habits, says a new survey of 2,000 women."
as well women finds a nice guy boring, they love the mysterious vibe and it excites them wondering if tonight is the night they are going to get smacked around, or if their man is cheating on them, ":cuz girl i know that nikka is no good but i love him"