Usually the first thing I ask myself after someone ask me for money, is "you can't get a loan or have a credit card?" 
And if we aren't close, we haven't you asked the
people you're close to???
Have you screwed them over and trying to make me next??
FAMILY:
Thanks God no one in my immediate Family ever ask me for money. Only relatives, 1st cousins and Aunts. I have a gambling Uncle that borrows but allow pays back.
My rules is, if you're known to be broke and struggling for years, never keep a job, you can't get but maybe 20$ from me to start off.
If you're a gambler with no job, you can't get a dime. If you've screwed anyone I know over, you can't get a dime.
You're better off asking me to give you 20$ than to ask for a loan and never pay back.
FRIENDS:
I don't have any close friends I don't trust or that are broke. I'll give them the shirt off my back. If they ask for a 1000$, I know it's serious and I wouldn't hesitate. But if they don't pay back, they can never get another dime and it might ruin our friendship.
FEMALE:
I rarely have women ask me for money. Most know i got it. But I don't deal with many broke people. I have one female friend/ jumpoff, she's an army officer sometimes she needs 100 or 200$, but always pays me back. There's this young fine chick, I smash regularly, mentioned her here before. She never keeps a job, she asks for 40 and 60$ sometimes, I get it to her, no problem. She always makes it up to me. And i forget about the few coins.
And if we aren't close, we haven't you asked thepeople you're close to???
Have you screwed them over and trying to make me next??
FAMILY:
Thanks God no one in my immediate Family ever ask me for money. Only relatives, 1st cousins and Aunts. I have a gambling Uncle that borrows but allow pays back.
My rules is, if you're known to be broke and struggling for years, never keep a job, you can't get but maybe 20$ from me to start off.
If you're a gambler with no job, you can't get a dime. If you've screwed anyone I know over, you can't get a dime.
You're better off asking me to give you 20$ than to ask for a loan and never pay back.
FRIENDS:
I don't have any close friends I don't trust or that are broke. I'll give them the shirt off my back. If they ask for a 1000$, I know it's serious and I wouldn't hesitate. But if they don't pay back, they can never get another dime and it might ruin our friendship.
FEMALE:
I rarely have women ask me for money. Most know i got it. But I don't deal with many broke people. I have one female friend/ jumpoff, she's an army officer sometimes she needs 100 or 200$, but always pays me back. There's this young fine chick, I smash regularly, mentioned her here before. She never keeps a job, she asks for 40 and 60$ sometimes, I get it to her, no problem. She always makes it up to me. And i forget about the few coins.
