When coli men and men in general say "I hope i dont fu(k this up"

[Ooh Marty]

Its implying that yall know u got something good with a woman and u know u may fukk it up in the long run right?

if men are aware of this, why do yall fukk up something good with a woman u claim to be into? and when u lose her, u go crazy?

This has happened to me on a few occasions.

 

[Smoke]

We not entirely in control of what we do to be honest, so there's a good chance we could fukk something up and not even mean to do it.

 

[Ghpstface]

if a chick is good for you but shes not waxing your jimmy right...you know eventually ur gonna cheat on her...

 

[Ello_Vee]

Maybe because they are not sure which action is going to be the one that fukks it up. Women forgive a lot of shyt and these dudes don't know when/if they are going to cross that line from forgiven to fukkup. Just a theory.

 

[Ooh Marty]

Maybe because they are not sure which action is going to be the one that fukks it up. Women forgive a lot of shyt and these dudes don't know when/if they are going to cross that line from forgiven to fukkup. Just a theory.

its simple though.

As long as a nikka keep it 100 wit me from the jump im gucci...dont switch up on me...thats all i ask for.

 

[rogue_riezo]

Never been in the situation .

I'd be happy enough that she acknowledged me as her boyfriend before throwing the restraining order in my face and calling the cops on me talmbout "he'said doing it again, I found him in my bedroom sniffing my panties again! I don't know this man officer".

If she didn't want me to sniff them she shouldn't have left them on her bed with the bedroom windows open .

 

[no.]

Never been in the situation .

I'd be happy enough that she acknowledged me as her boyfriend before throwing the restraining order in my face and calling the cops on me talmbout "he'said doing it again, I found him in my bedroom sniffing my panties again! I don't know this man officer".

If she didn't want me to sniff them she shouldn't have left them on her bed with the bedroom windows open .

 

[Dwolf]

Never been in the situation .

I'd be happy enough that she acknowledged me as her boyfriend before throwing the restraining order in my face and calling the cops on me talmbout "he'said doing it again, I found him in my bedroom sniffing my panties again! I don't know this man officer".

If she didn't want me to sniff them she shouldn't have left them on her bed with the bedroom windows open .

 

[Ooh Marty]

Never been in the situation .

I'd be happy enough that she acknowledged me as her boyfriend before throwing the restraining order in my face and calling the cops on me talmbout "he'said doing it again, I found him in my bedroom sniffing my panties again! I don't know this man officer".

If she didn't want me to sniff them she shouldn't have left them on her bed with the bedroom windows open .

u can sniff my pannies all u want...as long as its not the ones i took off after the club cus i'd be embarrassed :mlaff:

 

[rogue_riezo]

u can sniff my pannies all u want...as long as its not the ones i took off after the club cus i'd be embarrassed :mlaff:

Post party panties you say?

 

[Jayson_bourn]

In my younger years i'd ruin great relationships with my special brand of brutal honesty. Did I purposely end those relationships? That's up for debate , but I can tell you that I didn't at all have those intentions in mind when I said things that were maybe a bit too honest. I grew out of it but I think the concept applies.

You said that if a man keeps it 100 with you than its all Gucci...but is it really? Its hard to tell someone to stay honest AND not switch up even though none of us really stay the same throughout the years (or even months). Opinions change as experience sometimes changes perspective.

 

[blackestofpanthers]

u can sniff my pannies all u want...as long as its not the ones i took off after the club cus i'd be embarrassed :mlaff:

 

[Ooh Marty]

In my younger years i'd ruin great relationships with my special brand of brutal honesty. Did I purposely end those relationships? That's up for debate , but I can tell you that I didn't at all have those intentions in mind when I said things that were maybe a bit too honest. I grew out of it but I think the concept applies.

You said that if a man keeps it 100 with you than its all Gucci...but is it really? Its hard to tell someone to stay honest AND not switch up even though none of us really stay the same throughout the years (or even months). Opinions change as experience sometimes changes perspective.

im talking about during the first few months of us dating and getting to know each other.

of course ppl gon change and evolve with each other...thats the part of growing right?

Im talking about being true with ur intentions from the jump.

I can only respect a nikka that says he aint perfect but has alot of working to do but is feeling me

cus i aint perfect...but the point is being real up front...dont put on the perfect guy thing when u know u aint shyt and dont want shyt...u see where im coming from now?

 

[Ooh Marty]

Post party panties you say?

meet me in pms

 

[Ooh Marty]

We not entirely in control of what we do to be honest, so there's a good chance we could fukk something up and not even mean to do it.

but yall know how to fukk up tho...and men arent dumb for the most part so yall know when yall fukk up...its common sense