Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
I feel like that's a form of abuse/aggression. I think those people low key enjoy making people feel powerless by posing a problem to them, then trying to put them in a position where all one can do is listen and can't help, and then feel as miserable as the person approaching them with the problem.
It seems to me like a way of a deeply insecure person exerting power over people and draining them of emotional energy. If they wanted to vent, it's one thing, but when they're purposefully leaving out useful information that can help you come up with a solution, it feels like an attempt to make you feel small.
I noticed this today with a coworker, she approached me with a situation that seemed to demand an urgent response, then when I gave some options, she said those wouldn't work. I asked for more information and shyt just didn't add up with her story and certain details were left out. I quickly realized that she just wanted to stress me out and wasn't ACTUALLY looking for someone to troubleshoot the issue. I came up with a reasonable plan that she couldn't shoot down but she seemed ANNOYED by the fact that a solution was given that made logical sense
It seems to me like a way of a deeply insecure person exerting power over people and draining them of emotional energy. If they wanted to vent, it's one thing, but when they're purposefully leaving out useful information that can help you come up with a solution, it feels like an attempt to make you feel small.
I noticed this today with a coworker, she approached me with a situation that seemed to demand an urgent response, then when I gave some options, she said those wouldn't work. I asked for more information and shyt just didn't add up with her story and certain details were left out. I quickly realized that she just wanted to stress me out and wasn't ACTUALLY looking for someone to troubleshoot the issue. I came up with a reasonable plan that she couldn't shoot down but she seemed ANNOYED by the fact that a solution was given that made logical sense