When the person that you love marries someone else

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I gotta feel for this guy, there's nothing worse than heartache but you also gotta know when its time to throw in the towel (the proverbial one, not off yourself)
 

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there is no way this is a grown man simping over a single mother
 

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I gotta feel for this guy, there's nothing worse than heartache but you also gotta know when its time to throw in the towel (the proverbial one, not off yourself)
Thanks I really just wish circumstances could be better but it feels like the world is ending.
 

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there is no way this is a grown man simping over a single mother
I'm sorry I wasn't raised around the "playas" that you were. Don't bother spitting that wisdoms in my direction I litterally wouldn't k ow where you're comming from.
 

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Is it time to commit suicide?


As someone that was in Deep love and engaged and it didn't work out, and seeing the person that I will always love get married again I felt a couple of ways.

1) happy that she's happy
2) A bit slighted
3) indifferent
4) sorry for her (I know its not gonna last)

Over all, I was glad she's was happy and I dont have any other feelings beyond that.:yeshrug:



You'll get over it, sounds like you still had strong feelings for her when she got married. Its probably the best thing that could happen to you although painful. It's like have a dislocated arm, you can snap it back into place instantly and its gonna hurt like hell or you can let it linger and it will be slow and painful and eventually turn into something that with you forever.
 

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As someone that was in Deep love and engaged and it didn't work out, and seeing the person that I will always love get married again I felt a couple of ways.

1) happy that she's happy
2) A bit slighted
3) indifferent
4) sorry for her (I know its not gonna last)

Over all, I was glad she's was happy and I dont have any other feelings beyond that.:yeshrug:



You'll get over it, sounds like you still had strong feelings for her when she got married. Its probably the best thing that could happen to you although painful. It's like have a dislocated arm, you can snap it back into place instantly and its gonna hurt like hell or you can let it linger and it will be slow and painful and eventually turn into something that with you forever.
Are you saying I should be happy for her? Well that's kind of hard to do when she's living her life with another man.
 

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Are you saying I should be happy for her? Well that's kind of hard to do when she's living her life with another man.

Then you might not love her as much as you think. Even if your pissed its not you. If she aint cheat on you or something like that....Then yes some part of you should be happy for her even though the very thought of it might make you sick.

That's love for you.

Not saying you should show up at the wedding or be friends or ever lend her a helping hand. But some part of you should be happy that she's happy.
 

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You can still have sex with married people. It's not morally right but it's totally possible :umad:

Maybe it wasn't meant to be. Or maybe they'll get divorced and marry you years later. Who knows, this world is a crazy place!

Just remember that sometimes when you want something really bad and you don't get it, it can be blessing in disguise.:ufdup:

The second girl I ever loved is getting married and my brother in law is officiating the wedding. And my sister and mom are going.


But its life :manny:
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:russ:
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