Let me be clear, I do not condone hitting women or domestic violence.
But let's also accept the TRUTH that "a man should never hit a woman" is NOT a legal law. In fact, if a woman hits you as a man, you have every right(the same as she does) according to the law, to call the police and have her arrested. According to the law, neither side should be hitting the other.
You also have every right as a human(male or female) to defend yourself against bodily harm if the situation calls for it.
And these women need to realize that b/c this is simply a cultural norm, that NOT everybody adheres or believes in that norm. So don't think you can jump up in every mans face or push him, spit at him/swing at him, and just automatically assume he isn't gonna do anything. Everybody isn't wired the same, and everybody has a line drawn that u dont cross.
Truthfully, this cultural belief believed by most women has probably caused more domestic violence than necessary. If women knew there was a 50/50 chance a man would swing back, she probably wouldn't swing first. An old grandmother will tell you, "baby, don't you get up in his face like that swingin and pushin, actin crazy.....he's still a man."
It's best to keep your hands to yourself.
But let's also accept the TRUTH that "a man should never hit a woman" is NOT a legal law. In fact, if a woman hits you as a man, you have every right(the same as she does) according to the law, to call the police and have her arrested. According to the law, neither side should be hitting the other.
You also have every right as a human(male or female) to defend yourself against bodily harm if the situation calls for it.
And these women need to realize that b/c this is simply a cultural norm, that NOT everybody adheres or believes in that norm. So don't think you can jump up in every mans face or push him, spit at him/swing at him, and just automatically assume he isn't gonna do anything. Everybody isn't wired the same, and everybody has a line drawn that u dont cross.
Truthfully, this cultural belief believed by most women has probably caused more domestic violence than necessary. If women knew there was a 50/50 chance a man would swing back, she probably wouldn't swing first. An old grandmother will tell you, "baby, don't you get up in his face like that swingin and pushin, actin crazy.....he's still a man."
It's best to keep your hands to yourself.
a lot of dudes would swear up and down that they came from a two parent home and shyt on the ones that doesnt but would c/s beating women as a form of self defense. My mom told me never to put my hands on a woman but my father embed it in me not to do it. Where are all these dudes fathers at? 
Then, she called him the b word and told him to go cry. I thought it was honorable but i felt that maybe she needed to be retrained from hurting my friend.