You should’ve built up enough of a rapport to know what should be a good idea

First dates are generally good for something where you both get to engage the other. For instance, some kind of a game room or pool or something. Even something like top shelf is pretty cool. I’m probably showing my age here, but back in the day there was a show called blind date, The dates would involve them having to converse with each other., besides the usual ping-pong of dull conversations that first dates are known for. well, that was when they weren’t in hot tubs, getting drunk, lol.