"Where do you see things going with us"

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Girl you interested in, but not sure yet, might just want to smash or be in a relationship asks you this.
What do you say thecoli residents? :patrice:
 

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I see us having sex on a podium in a college intro art class to the sounds of someone tapping a bell in a nice cool jazz tempo
 
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Be honest or don't bother proceeding with the chick.
This. I got this turned around on me during my stay in the friendzone. Anytime I pulled away on account of my feelings, her language would switch to "maybe" and "someday" or shyt like that.

Getting your heart jerked will make you kill someone. Rejection is fine. Flip-flopping hot and cold will have you waking up to a pair of scissors in your right temple.
 

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This. I got this turned around on me during my stay in the friendzone. Anytime I pulled away on account of my feelings, her language would switch to "maybe" and "someday" or shyt like that.

Getting your heart jerked will make you kill someone. Rejection is fine. Flip-flopping hot and cold will have you waking up to a pair of scissors in your right temple.

Yup, then people wonder why the opposite sex is crazy because y'all aren't being honest with your intentions. I'd rather you be straight up than me filling in the blanks and jumping to conclusions. I'm not here to waste time, tell me or get the fukkk out of my way.
 

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Yup, then people wonder why the opposite sex is crazy because y'all aren't being honest with your intentions. I'd rather you be straight up than me filling in the blanks and jumping to conclusions. I'm not here to waste time, tell me or get the fukkk out of my way.
You know, it isn't always that easy, though. I had some workplace tension when I said no to a friendzone by a coworker. I really wanted to date her, and I really
wanted to tap. She wasn't anything special but her eyes, just a hazel color, spoke to me...and my penis. She did not like me saying that either we date or she
has to kick rocks. Its like the days I would just tell chicks "I wanna take you out. How is (insert time and date) and I would get a :whoa: for being upfront, while
uncouth brothas who only wanted the box got the girls while telling her jack shyt.

Since men have to do 95% of the chasing, I will take no blame for the crazy that girls display.
 

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To be honest, I'm not in a space where I'd be able to give you my all as a boyfriend :jrdnsas1:


I have a lot of thing I need to work on so I dont want to commit to anyone when I need to commit to bettering myself first :jrdnsas2:


But I really like spending time with you, you have an incredible spirit and your presence brightens up my day:jrdnsas1:


I see us having a great relationship but let's not put any restrictions on it, our bond is much deeper than that :jrdnsas2:
 

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You know, it isn't always that easy, though. I had some workplace tension when I said no to a friendzone by a coworker..

shytting where you eat, smh. Hopefully you don't do that anymore :ufdup:
Yeah, there's some chicks that are a little crazy but it's what and how you say things that get girls like that.

To be honest, I'm not in a space where I'd be able to give you my all as a boyfriend :jrdnsas1:
I have a lot of thing I need to work on so I dont want to commit to anyone when I need to commit to bettering myself first :jrdnsas2:
But I really like spending time with you, you have an incredible spirit and your presence brightens up my day:jrdnsas1:
I see us having a great relationship but let's not put any restrictions on it, our bond is much deeper than that :jrdnsas2:

So lying without making it sound like a lie, this is why some chicks go nuts. :beli:
 

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shytting where you eat, smh. Hopefully you don't do that anymore :ufdup:
Yeah, there's some chicks that are a little crazy but it's what and how you say things that get girls like that.
It was a minimum wage job in retail. Potential for girlfriends/sex >>>>>>>>>>>them shytty ass wages. Now that I am in a real job, I see how
often people find life partners in the workplace. Its a good idea when it works, terrible when it doesn't. Thats the gist of how I understand it now.

But yea, I was being hounded by 4 chicks at my last job, and while ALL of them could have gotten the dikk, I simply wasnt interested. Two were single mothers,
one was a married mother of 2 :huhldup:, the other was a 17 year old kid who i later found out had a child that she pretended was her niece.

I'm not dating any chicks from the hood on account of how fukked up these background stories be on these chicks. Getting my money right so im in the company
of ladies who hit the gym and surf and whatnot between poetry readings and art galleries. I was hustling backwards with the chicks I was attracted to.
 
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Waste her time or ruin her life and then complain about how theres not good women when you're finally ready to settle down in your mid 30s.

:blessed:
 
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