I had kinda sex with a famous actor I'd say B list. Tldr: it sucked.
I bumped into him and his famous female partner (she's B list too) and they were interested in me. They offered to swing. I am not into women at all but he assured me it was just they were in the room together, no contact.
So we get to the room and it's very uncomfortable because I am very young. They list the rules. The rules were fukking stupid. She brings along a guy and it was just a bad scene. Me and the guy, the guest stars, were young and attractive and it felt like we were in colonial times and they had bought us. They were much older (about 40 him? Her a bit younger) and it was just very fukking weird. But I had a huge crush on this actor so I went with it. The guest star and I could have been related, they clearly had a type, and it wasn't each other. So I'm watching the guy sort of go at it with the woman, and the famous actor I'm with was clearly jealous. He would compliment me and I'd give him head, and he'd go down on me and he would be like a little gopher popping his head up to see what she was doing.
She was a total shrew. One time he said something nice about my body I.e. "I've never seen such a perfect ass." And she goes postal "MY ASS IS BETTER!" So her dude lost his boner completely. I'm looking at him and he's looking at me like we want to say so many things. So shrew gets pissed he can't get hard, and tells me to try. So I go over to him and say hey, and our eyes are wanting to talk so much shyt. Anyway, I make out with him a bit, that's it, and he gets a boner. That pisses her off more. Eventually she cums (it was this demented kindergarten circle where we all had to sit around watching her flick her bean like it was enthralling)and then the party is over. Famous actor was so.fukking.lame. I had a huge crush on him, and his penis was mostly limp, and really small. A sad trombone played when we tried to have sex. The other guest star dipped out. They offered me drugs. I declined. Shrew went to shower, and the no kissing rule was quickly broken with the loser actor who suddenly could get it up. Shrew came back and told me to leave and tossed a grand for me to keep my mouth shut. I left. I'm not sure if it was prostitution because I left and still can't remember if the dude actually got it in. I'm on my way home, and they call me up. Apparently they want me to come back. I agree because I'm bored. Basically they diddle each other in a molly fueled haze and throw another wad of cash at me. I walked away $3k richer. No real complaints. I later saw their divorce announced.
Another VERY FAMOUS dude/very powerful imdustry person I know has a thing for young Hispanic girls, and he's decrepit. He's richer than God, but old as him too, so the level of ass he pulls is surprisingly shytty. A lot of these Hollywood types are just as seedy as you'd expect. A very famous A list actor has a weird kink, where he likes to act like a baby, so I would never sleep with him. He's super nice to me, but everyone in certain circles knows this and it's kind of sad. He went through some stuff, and it fukked him up.
I hung out with one of the NFL top drafts once, didn't know who he was, just he told me he was going to be really famous in a minute. He was too young and not my type so I declined. He was weirdly begging me a lot to hook up on text and I was just not into it. I think he was thrown off because I didn't get excited like most women would. It's not like I'd get an NFL contract via his semen. I googled him after awhile and found indeed he did make it big and he is super famous. Good for him, but how funny he's so successful, yet acted so incredibly desperate.
Oh the funniest story I have is someone I grew up watching. Picture Mr. Rodgers, but not Mr. Rodgers., but let's call him that. I was a model, and long story short I got roped into meeting a Madame under false pretenses (a photographer tried to sell me into prostituton, not kidding!) who I never, ever, worked for and she was a bytch and gave Mr.Rodgers my number because he saw my modeling photo in her portfolio. Well Mr. Rodgers became obsessed with me and would call me up begging me to come "play." He offered me lots of money. He offered to let me move into his house. I was just horrified. My childhood was ruined! For anomnity sake lets just pretend he was say oh I don't know, playing a TV lawyer. To fukk with him and because he wouldn't leave me alone, I'd come up with excuses I wouldn't come meet him based on his TV show. It went on way too long until he finally gave up.
My friend dated a famous actor and he was horrible in bed too. He was really annoying. She refused to quit her job to spend more time with him, and he was a needy bytch, so literally two days later he was in a paparazzi shot hooking up with an A list actress who he married and divorced.
Another famous athlete basically made this very young girl drink until she was incoherent and took her home. I was so worried about it, because it was definitely rape, but I didn't know her well enough to insist she leave with me. He made a few comments which made him easily googleable the next day, and I saw photos of him and his wife and kids.
Oh and another iconic athlete who is super old came up to me while I was cocktailing. He basically solicited me for sex and it was horrifying. He is about 60. It was so gross and again, I was repulsed because I'd watched this dude when I was a kid. Ironically I was at Target last year, minding my business, and who do I bump into hundreds of miles from where we met? This dude, waiting in the checkout, and he totally recognized me no question, and did that whole oh shyt realization, and looked at the spot above my head pretending I didn't exist. As if I'm going to make a scene in Target with my family sized bag of t.p.
I could go on and on....but this comment is already super long
I'd say the more hearts in your eyes/unrealistic expectations you have sleeping with an actor, the more you're going to be disappointed. I dated someone very powerful, and he's nice enough, but famous people are overwhelmingly, disappointingly, human.
Gosh. I haven't thought about this in depth for ages. The problem with stories like this is I'm taking them to my grave because I am entirely normal, and know everyone would judge the hell out of me if they knew an inkling of the things I've done. I'm enjoying remembering this kind of stuff to finally spill some of it because it's been bottled up inside of me!
I'd say some variation of these stories is what's happened to me over and over. An actor (A list and also super cute) sent over a waitress who tried to sell him and to pull me over to his table. She was like "Oh Mr. So-and-so wants you as his guest!" I was offended (and young and stupid) he wouldn't at least come grab me himself instead of wave so I refused to go. Then I bumped into a totally embarrassing barely famous person (think like MTV reality show level of loser) but he was sexy! So we humpy danced and did filthy things in his VIP booth. Then I promised I'd have sex with him but I ran to the bathroom, and my friend and I crawled out the window and ran away.
A guy who won an Oscar was at a restaurant I was at with my boyfriend. When my boyfriend got up to use the bathroom one of his entourage came over and tried to give me his number. I accepted just because I wanted them to go away before my bf got back and it ruined his evening. Dude gave me these secretive knowing looks all dinner. Then I left his number on the table crumpled and walked out. I told my bf the next day and he was furious. It was so disrespectful.
I've been on a lot of trips, and in a lot of situations where I'm paid to eat. It is so weird. These men want to feel like they're surrounded by beautiful women, so they pay you....to come eat. It sounds ridiculously unbelievable but it's absolutely true. It's not sex, it's literally companionship, and it was mostly boring as hell. The thing is you weren't "allowed" to talk to other guys, and basically had to sit with a bunch of girls giggling and pretending the person paying the bill is so witty. Occasionally the more desirable actors will only spring for dinner, get you into a club, and you're just expected to sit there and act nice because they think they're too good to pay. Usually they only get away with that with very young very stupid fresh models, or meh girls. People who know what's up usually don't do that. It's weird. So when you see entourages of hot women with dudes, that's what's going on. The NFL draft was with other guys, and I met them because they did one of these nights out. They didn't pay us, but we were shuttled around all evening for free with drinks, dinner, limo to club, after party, drugs. Anything we wanted we could have. And even with all that it was only an okay evening.
Girls who want to make big bucks can go to the Middle East. Forgot the country, but some dude pays you $10k a week to come. The catch is if he or his advisors want more, you get paid more, but you basically have to do what he says. I've heard you can make $40k/week. I just pictured someone wanting to poop on my head and being beheaded for refusing. Some very well known beautiful women do this.
Another funny story is a man who is richer than anyone flew me and about....20 girls? out to go on this trip. We got paid daily to sit and giggle and eat dinners. But it was hell. And I was young, and feisty, and not digging it. So the girls are sitting around acting like brainless concubines, and I'm planning my escape to go party. The girls start feeding the guy and acting all subservient and I'm disgusted- I'm not getting paid enough for that shyt. Since I'm ignoring him he hones in on me and proceeds to feed me. He feeds me throughout the dinner. The power play cracked me up. Later he requested me to come to his room, but I literally ran off in the middle of the night. First I picked up my money of course. He was such a loser and so awkward. It blows my mind someone like him can be worth billions.
Let's see... Oh a famous rapper knew my friend and he basically wants to pay girls for sex and has a thing for prostitutes. He was nice and I love his music, but I don't do that. So my friend and I ran off after finding out what was expected. It's nice he was upfront. The industry is weird. Most guys balk at the idea of paying for sex, but won't have a problem paying for dinners for massive amounts of girls, and then letting a mediocre groupie sleep with him. They have low self esteem I think? I know one teen actor (I think he's actually 21?) who is totally adorable. A heartthrob. I'm not his type at all so we are cool. He goes for straight up ugly girls because he likes his ego stroked, and he doesn't have to treat them well. These girls are just freaked out they're getting his attention so a sexy line like "Hey, would you like to hang out to my car and suck my dikk?" Totally works. I've witnessed it and I just shake my head and laugh at him.
Most of the industry in my experience is overwhelming people who will do anything for fame, and hangers on. Almost all my jobs had an element of sleeze, and it was basically stated if I wanted to progress further I needed to sleep with people. I've always been sassy and never wanted fame so it never worked on me. A really famous guy had a music video I was going to star in....but it was so far to drive to get to...and they hardly pay you....and I knew I wasn't into fame so I totally ditched it. His agent called me freaking out about him really wanting me for it. I knew it was totally a matter of he was ready to fukk you and now we have to scramble for a replacement. He blew up. I later saw his wife who resembles a less exciting (don't mean to be mean!) version of me, and it all made sense. There are so many beautiful women, but I look very unique, so I fill a niche, so these guys go wild. In my experience dating these types of people they're very shallow, because they're used to getting special treatment, given special privileges, and handed things. So when someone comes along like me who's pretty pragmatic, and seems disinterested (they have no clue I've been paid to enjoy lobster haha) they freak the fukk out on me. I've often felt these guys are like spoiled little children, who just want to play with me their shiny new toy they have never had before for a minute, but the moment they have had me I know I'd be discarded, so it was rare I'd actually do something like that.
I'd say most young women, unless they're extremely lucky, get somewhat eaten alive. You have to do certain things if you want to get somewhere. And I've heard the same for young men. A very famous gay man basically uses his fame to sleep with disturbingly young actors and do very, very, gross stuff to them. I asked if they got paid....and they don't. They're that desperate to get ahead. I was friends with a very, very, beautiful girl in the States who went back to Europe and became super famous. I stumbled on her Instagram and had no clue it was even the same person for awhile. Her eyes are dead. It's clear she went through some shyt. And it's so very sad to me because she's a shell of the young hope filled girl I remember.
I'm obviously very liberal, but the whole thing is just sad and feels really miserable when you're in it. It's one thing to get paid for sex, it's another thing to have sex and give it for hope and get nothing. I've been worried about my rent, and given a 50,000 bottle of champagne in a club. You expect things to live up to the hype, they don't, and as a result there are a lot of really miserable fukking people. Then they push more and more limits because they're dissatisfied. It makes interesting stories to tell, and it is super funny since I really didn't do anything I didn't want to, but it's also really sad for the people who take it all so seriously.