Where's the Thin Line between being Controlling or Your Chick being Deceitful?

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  • The Boyfriend is being Controlling, she just having innocent fun online, not real life, relax homie

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  • The Girlfriend is being Deceitful, she could have just said she on a dating site as well but no!

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my homie messaged me with some slight drama for once earlier. I was going to see what the breh in the TLR thought

he and his chick been rocky but they cool as of now. He said him and his girl were chillin around the house one day when he told her he got a fake no picture "OKCupid" account where he just scans hoes and be trollin the hoes to rile them up (this is true) and he and her were looking at the messages cracking up at getting the chicks all mad and he asked if she would ever use a dating site and she just laughed it off saying its for corny women who cant make it in the real world, etc

Fast foward a few days,

He randomly signed up for another dating site to fukk with more hoes verbally (he one of them thot exposers, its funny) when he shockingly came across his girls internet nickname in the female section of their area!
:krs:

He thought he was buggin out but then, magically he signed out his fake account and signed in that exact screen name and put the password she usually has for everything and IT WORKED!
:krs:


He did some snooping but although she has an free account, it seems she still been viewing a bunch of nikkas profiles and liking their photos and even sending "hearts" and shyt. she even filled out the whole little description section of "search males" like....
1. black males
2. weight
3. not married
4. no kids (even though they have 2) :hmm:
5. income
etc meanwhile his chick got no photo and didn't fill out any description of herself trying to fly under the radar
:demonic:

Now he has a past of coming off controlling and jumping to conclusions and getting himself in trouble so he tried to do the rare "Good Cop" approach to investigate this the next day...

Next Day:
he tried to get her to confess by using sneaky lil' tactics to bring up the topic and see if she would confess but she stood to her original story saying she dont do dating sites and its a waste of time when you in a relationship. She said she would maybe do it if she was single but naw, not now.

He didnt want to come off controlling and press the issue so he let it go:mjcry:


later that night, he signed in again to snoop and she was back on the site scanning nikkas pages and liking photos :wub::wub:
:sadcam:


Now, he knows for sure that he doesn't "share that girl" currently but is he losing his grip on his bytch? or is it this innocent fun?

what should he do about this?

its one of dem paid dating sites where you gotta pay to really get the true experience of sending and receiving messages and she didnt spend any money on a paid account so it comes off like innocent fun but why she denying it? isnt that grounds to whoop that bytch verbally?



Is he being controlling or she being deceitful?


p.s. dude always wanna tell me drama when we playing poker online so he can take advantage :beli:
 
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Thread sounds made up.

But all girls "have fun". Just fun till she finds a better nikka. Tripping won't change that.
 
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They both sound childish.
Why both of them so bored?
They have a relationship, 2 kids, I assume jobs or something and this is what they spend their spare time on?
he been beefing with her for awhile and i guess she wants to test the field safely :yeshrug:
 

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Guys like to have some eye candy to look at and some attention after being in a relationship for a while, best believe women also do look at other guys or like attention from other guys especially if they been in a relationship for some time.
 

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The exit lights are on they just loitering until the shows over.


Basically they both playing with fire, but if he legit showed her what he was doing and she had no problems and participates in it then its more on her for lying and fronting while out liking and sending hearts to nikka's.


Basically as said they both playing games.
 
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