Which Is Harder Getting Into A Relationship Or Getting Out of One?

[Commish]

OP..

I don’t believe there is such a thing as either or with your question. Getting into a serious relationship as well as getting out of one easy, hard or indifferent is entirely up to the individual.

Everything starts with communication. Next, being transparent as well as having a healthy self esteem and possess a strong moral and ethical base.

Where I see the challenge is people having different agendas, goals and expectations, but doesn’t communicate these things to their significant other. A lack of consistency and discipline also is a key factor.

There are certain virtues that one must have to start and maintain a successful relationship. But, should things not work out, one can’t say that it is automatically hard to get out of it. Nobody can force you to stay in something you know is toxic and destructive to your life. It is also understood that feelings may be involved, but so what? Feelings can change and they will, if you value yourself and know that making the decision to leave is in your overall best interest.

Moral of the story...

How you value yourself will greatly impact how easy or difficult to start, maintain and/or leave a serious relationship. You can make it easy, hard or you can learn to let things be and accept whatever outcome that comes into fruition...Be rigid/restrictive or palatable..

The choice is yours!

 

[Diyhai]

It took me 6 months to get out of my last one. Admittedly, I wasn't direct because I'm a coward but some women don't get the hint or stay in denial when the love is gone.

why not be direct
shouldnt be no hints
you can't blame the other person for what you are not telling them

 

[xoxodede]

Getting into IMO.

 

[fkthisgaysite]

For me getting out of one. I be not wanting to hurt feelings or start over.

 

[Legal]

Getting out. No question.

Especially if there wasn't proper closure.

I have an ex that I broke up with in 05 that I remained loose friends with. We'd do the cordial happy birthday, congrats on major accomplishment thing, but nothing major.

She hit me up once to vent about some real life shyt she had going on, and I was dumbass and replied on some "I'mma be a friend in need" shyt.

Homegirl hits me up again after a few weeks of friendly texting to say she felt guilty because she felt herself sliding back into the headspace she was in when we were together, and her husband was heated she was talking to me.

It's my own fault, because nearly every time we we would reconnect over the years, it was always some thing she was hiding from him, and he'd get upset. I'm pretty sure breh is ready to run the fade on sight, and I've never even seen this guy.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Getting out definitely. I’d rather the woman leave me honestly.

I feel this.

 

[-deleted-]

Getting in no question

if you have no problem getting into a relationship as a man you’re equal to a girl who gives sex easily

you shouldn’t be handing out commitment left and right as a man........don’t you have shyt to do?

 

[Diyhai]

OP..

I don’t believe there is such a thing as either or with your question. Getting into a serious relationship as well as getting out of one easy, hard or indifferent is entirely up to the individual.

Everything starts with communication. Next, being transparent as well as having a healthy self esteem and possess a strong moral and ethical base.

Where I see the challenge is people having different agendas, goals and expectations, but doesn’t communicate these things to their significant other. A lack of consistency and discipline also is a key factor.

There are certain virtues that one must have to start and maintain a successful relationship. But, should things not work out, one can’t say that it is automatically hard to get out of it. Nobody can force you to stay in something you know is toxic and destructive to your life. It is also understood that feelings may be involved, but so what? Feelings can change and they will, if you value yourself and know that making the decision to leave is in your overall best interest.

Moral of the story...

How you value yourself will greatly impact how easy or difficult to start, maintain and/or leave a serious relationship. You can make it easy, hard or you can learn to let things be and accept whatever outcome that comes into fruition...Be rigid/restrictive or palatable..

The choice is yours!

Agree but I feel like if u make a good decision with the person you chose to get it a relationship with it shouldn’t be hard to end it even if you care about them
People always try to make a relationship about the other person
To me it is about yourself
How you treat people and how you allow yourself to be treated