... This is the attitude we gotta have. People will only start valuing us if we value ourselves. I don't think there's anything wrong with acknowledging the fact that we're undervalued; you have to acknowledge things to improve on them. But the moment you accept it as your fate, you lose.
No doubt. My 9 years on SOHH, i was left fending for myself, changing posters perceptions about asian dudes one poster at a time. It was a daunting task, but i did it (and I even got a black pass/card to go with it... it's in my other wallet though - the old heads will vouch for me).
Irregardless, i'd be lying if i said the shiit wasn't an uphill battle. But let's be reality, growing up in america, as an oriental, you already have the disadvantages of being an asian (now, i'm not gonna talk about the work force and the education system, i ain't cakin' and went to school for communications, so that already makes me an irregular asian person, lol).
The point is; i only worry about myself. I can give 3 fiddle fukkeroonies about the next guy... especially if he's a CACarot (that white privilege shouldn't sit well with any of us colored peoples, black/yellow/brown/green etc.). But that's the reality of it. The white man set the tone for their own betterment and benefit.
The asian broads that DO date/marry white men - why would i want to delve and get involved with that psyche to begin with? She's fixated on a certain brand of man because of what Cosmo/Instyle/Vogue
tell her what's hot and what she sees in movies and sitcoms.
And to be reality; it doesn't bother me... more power to 'em. I'm not out here to captain save somebody becuase she's of my background; that's too much work that i wouldn't even enterain.
When i'm out and about, i approach women and i make something of it. That's how i've traverse the lanes of date-ship and have been fruitful in my conquest because of my resilience and forward thinking aptitude. That basically reflects my attitude. And that's how i stay eating at a high altitude. My dudes.
So irrgardless of where you from, you should put yourself out there and find a chick whether she black/white/purple or blue...
Put on ya best fit and hit the strip with cha crews...
... approach that hot prude. Give a little edge by being a tad rude.
That'll basically get her in the mood...
and the next thing you know... she'll be showing you that she's actually quite lewd - especially in the nude.
After one night, to your hip she gon' be glued.
If not... my adage with women, treat 'em like you U-Haul... and stay on the move.
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Either way like you said I don't have time to care about that shyt. It's parents job to instill pride in their children. NOT mine.
