Who is more wicked, the husband or the wife

[BelieveBeOK]

Meaning be proficient at what they're lacking or unwilling to do. Same as them filling in our gaps. But I disagree with it being our world today.

Too much time in TLR will do that to you.

I agree with this, but gender "wars" can't not be taken serious (by men in general) because humans behave how society dictates them to, and whatever degree of power has already been relinquished to the point that we can't just change the rules back.

But currently women are changing the rules at their whim, holding on to some, making up others. Until they get a sound grip on what they want out of themselves, and what they want out of men, we're gonna be too confused to lead or even partner with them (in general) and they're gonna be lost and hurting.

Not sure how to put this without sounding like an "alpha bro" but my genuine belief is that, outside of social norms like not commiting crimes and generally not being an a$$hole, I am not being dictated to by anybody.

Nevermind being "too confused" to partner with a woman. (What a strange thought to have ).


You make it sound like a doomsday scenario out here when the reality is dudes are getting with women everyday.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

bet he knew about the cash app deposits too...

 

[humminbird]

who writes this?

 

[Shadow King]

Women. Sound grip.

Bruh WE are leaders. I say this as a person that's been with his lady for almost 6 years. Somebody on here said females have to be stopped from eating ice cream or some shyt before bed. I was dying. Then a couple days later I had to tell my lady she can't and shouldn't eat cake for breakfast

My point is dont believe the hype. These chicks are looking for leaders in men, not competition.

They're looking to be led by the tip-top of men, not men who on paper are on their level. They're socioeconomically independent and putting on gamefaces to weed out average cats. I agree we're put on Earth to lead but historically an Everyman could lead any given woman largely because she was dependant on him. Now that's not the case and the criteria for a man "worth following" is raised. If you're a part of that echelon props to you but for average dudes the slippery slope of modern gender relations can't be taken lightly.

The dynamic between a man and his longtime woman is totally different from a man on the field or even just platonic settings. I'm not single anymore either but being single for most of my 26 years I know how young brehs navigating this decade feel.

shyt is weird now.

 

[Shadow King]

Too much time in TLR will do that to you.


Not sure how to put this without sounding like an "alpha bro" but my genuine belief is that, outside of social norms like not commiting crimes and generally not being an a$$hole, I am not being dictated to by anybody.

Nevermind being "too confused" to partner with a woman. (What a strange thought to have ).


You make it sound like a doomsday scenario out here when the reality is dudes are getting with women everyday.

The threshold of being an a$$hole is changing. I'm sensing there's a considerable age gap in this discussion. I'm not talking about a single individual dude being too confused to get with a single individual woman. I'm talking about men at large being confused on what women actually want out of the dynamic between themselves and us. Does it lean towards leadership, or does it lean towards partnership? If you individually subscribe to an old school brand of masculinity that's fine but that's not how things in general are going moving forward.

 

[BelieveBeOK]

They're looking to be led by the tip-top of men, not men who on paper are on their level. They're socioeconomically independent and putting on gamefaces to weed out average cats. I agree we're out on Earth to lead but historical an Everyman could lead any given woman largely because ahe was dependant on him. Now that's not the case and the criteria for a man "worth following" is raised. If you're a part of that echelon props to you but for average dudes the slippery slope of modern gender relations can't be taken lightly.

The dynamic between a man and his longtime woman is totally different from a man on the field or even just platonic settings. I'm not single anymore either but being single for most of my 26 years I know how young brehs navigating this decade feel.

shyt is weird now.

Average dudes get average women. That's how it's always been. We're the same age breh. I genuinely don't mean to insult you but it seems to me like you keep playing yourself down and have (or had) low confidence.

Putting yourself in a woman's shoes, or even a man's shoes, would you want to be lead by somebody with low confidence? Women don't find that shyt attractive because it's not an attractive trait to have.

You can't expect to have your pick of the litter when even you concede there are "better" men out there than you.

 

[JackRoss]

They're looking to be led by the tip-top of men, not men who on paper are on their level. They're socioeconomically independent and putting on gamefaces to weed out average cats. I agree we're out on Earth to lead but historical an Everyman could lead any given woman largely because ahe was dependant on him. Now that's not the case and the criteria for a man "worth following" is raised. If you're a part of that echelon props to you but for average dudes the slippery slope of modern gender relations can't be taken lightly.

The dynamic between a man and his longtime woman is totally different from a man on the field or even just platonic settings. I'm not single anymore either but being single for most of my 26 years I know how young brehs navigating this decade feel.

shyt is weird now.

I hear you bruh. Glad I'm out the game. I'm nowhere near the upper echelon especially with just a GED. I definitely took my L's, hard lessons. I learned a lot though. Most of these chicks are just looking for leadership and companionship. A lot of the other shyt is a front. Yeah this new Instagram and Twitter shyt ain't no joke. I feel bad for the new bruhs but self pity ain't what's up. Comparing yourself ain't what's up. Do you and the ladies will come.

What do you consider the average bruh? I'm not tall as fukk. I have a GED. I won't speak on looks because it's in the eye of the beholder. I'm a very positive person though and people seem to naturally gravitate towards me. I be chillin

 

[BelieveBeOK]

The threshold of being an a$$hole is changing. I'm sensing there's a considerable age gap in this discussion. I'm not talking about a single individual dude being too confused to get with a single individual woman. I'm talking about men at large being confused on what women actually want out of the dynamic between themselves and us. Does it lean towards leadership, or does it lean towards partnership? If you individually subscribe to an old school brand of masculinity that's fine but that's not how things in general are going moving forward.

Like I said in my prior post, we are the same age.

I really think it's a difference in confidence at play. My opinion is that you seem to view yourself as a victim of circumstance, with very little in your control.

Whereas my natural view is that my life is a fuction of the choices I make. All of which are in my control. That's not to say everything goes my way but I have the power to shape (or at least attempt to shape) whatever I want.

Edit: Also, to reply to your point on old school masculinity, in as much as it may not be fashionable to say, the overwhelming majority of women still want a man to be a man. Yes, what that means has altered slightly over time and whilst there are things men could do then that are unacceptable now (groping women on the street, beating them etc.) it's not like the whole game has changed. The fundamental laws of attractiveness still hold true.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

The Husband.

At some point, he knew the shyt, and let her keep doing it...to justify the poisoning..

 

[Shadow King]

Average dudes get average women. That's how it's always been. We're the same age breh. I genuinely don't mean to insult you but it seems to me like you keep playing yourself down and have (or had) low confidence.

Putting yourself in a woman's shoes, or even a man's shoes, would you want to be lead by somebody with low confidence? Women don't find that shyt attractive because it's not an attractive trait to have.

You can't expect to have your pick of the litter when even you concede there are "better" men out there than you.

And do you believe most average woman are faithful to these average dudes?

I am a realist. I have more unattractive traits on paper, particularly tangible things and physical attributes, than attractive. What I have to offer is beneath the surface. In today's game that's not really enough, damn sure ain't enough to have a "pick of the liter."

So you don't believe some women are "better" than others? If you didn't then you'd get with any woman. There's reasons women at large respond differently to men who may be famous, or wealthy, or outrageously in shape. Because tangibly, on a surface level (what men are on Earth to deal with), they offer more than most can. They can be shytty once depths are reached but whether or not women deal with that are based on her morals on how much status she believes dude has or needs to offset the bullshyt. And morality is lacking today.

Like I said in my prior post, we are the same age.

I really think it's a difference in confidence at play. My opinion is that you seem to view yourself as a victim of circumstance, with very little in your control.

Whereas my natural view is that my life is a fuction of the choices I make. All of which are in my control. That's not to say everything goes my way but I have the power to shape (or at least attempt to shape) whatever I want.

Edit: Also, to reply to your point on old school masculinity, in as much as it may not be fashionable to say, the overwhelming majority of women still want a man to be a man. Yes, what that means has altered slightly over time and whilst there are things men could do then that are unacceptable now (groping women on the street, beating them etc.) it's not like the whole game has changed. The fundamental laws of attractiveness still hold true.

All people to a degree are victims of circumstance, due to the fact that as I said, society dictates how we live. You don't agree with that premise so we're not really going to agree with any sprung from that board. But humans cannot be social creatures yet deviate from whatever social standards we're immersed in. You can make whatever choices you want but those choices will typically fall somewhere in bounds of what is acceptable for your time and culture.

What is "man being a man" to you? That in itself is not uniform with every man on top of standards changing. But women cannot change their standard of feminine behavior and energy while masculine energy and behavior remains timeless, not for comparison but for balance since we're two halves of a whole as a species.

 

[Shadow King]

I hear you bruh. Glad I'm out the game. I'm nowhere near the upper echelon especially with just a GED. I definitely took my L's, hard lessons. I learned a lot though. Most of these chicks are just looking for leadership and companionship. A lot of the other shyt is a front. Yeah this new Instagram and Twitter shyt ain't no joke. I feel bad for the new bruhs but self pity ain't what's up. Comparing yourself ain't what's up. Do you and the ladies will come.

What do you consider the average bruh? I'm not tall as fukk. I have a GED. I won't speak on looks because it's in the eye of the beholder. I'm a very positive person though and people seem to naturally gravitate towards me. I be chillin

All that is great bro. Props to you. I'm glad not in the game either. But if you feel that way AND feel bad for the young brehs out here then you know what time it is

Dudes obviously shouldn't be walking around with their heads down but it's just different now. And graduating at the top of this decade I seen the shyt unfolding. If I had to be back "in the game" I couldn't be bothered. I'd be a workaholic for real and maybe that would accumulate resources that would be attractive but at point I wouldn't trust a soul. I been cuffed for a year and I'm glad.

 

[JackRoss]

All that is great bro. Props to you. I'm glad not in the game either. But if you feel that way AND feel bad for the young brehs out here then you know what time it is

Dudes obviously shouldn't be walking around with their heads down but it's just different now. And graduating at the top of this decade I seen the shyt unfolding. If I had to be back "in the game" I couldn't be bothered. I'd be a workaholic for real and maybe that would accumulate resources that would be attractive but at point I wouldn't trust a soul. I been cuffed for a year and I'm glad.

Bruh I feel terrible for these young. If I was in this Gen X twitter Instagram shyt, I would have throwin in the towel like

If you fukk with her, cuff her. This shyt too much proud old nikka. Tounge kissing is CAC shyt now. I dont know lil bruh. Glad you made it out when you did. These new nikkas weird

 

[blaccbeard]

i would have said him until she said that aint your son, wow that's some cold shyt, don't know what something like that would do to a man's psyche.