Who is taking the bigger risk?

[86\*/98]

Let's say a 30 year old Coli member was dating and had feelings for a 20 year college senior. Let's say this pair is the type to analyze their relationship together all the time. Putting everything on the table in a healthy way. Let's say their age gap came up, and they both feel they're taking the bigger risk if things get extra serious.

So who does the Coli think is taking the bigger risk. A 20 year old whose argument is "If things don't work out, you'll have stolen my 20's"

Or the young old nikka that would have to be the old old nikka in the club if shyt falls apart years from now?



Also, her hypothetical parents are 9 years apart and have worked out fine. So she's tripping high key.


Also, before nikkas and niggettes come in here trying to talk down on hypothetical breh. Just know the girl is brilliant, he couldn't manipulate or control her if he wanted. And the parents have already been told about hypothetical breh and his age and want him to come to Thanksgiving dinner with her, so they can meet him. So if the parents are cool with this, why can't you just be happy for hypothetical breh? Huh?

Just answer the question up there so hypothetical breh can steal good points and be prepared to defend good points going against his argument. Don't make this difficult.

 

[86\*/98]

I'm about to go do the work thing I expect there to be some good god damn talking points for hypothetical breh when I get back.

 

[Gold]

20 year old is taking a far bigger risk, this isn't even close.
I assume that the 30 year old is looking to settle down. He's at the stage of his life where its low risk high reward.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Analyze risks instead of enjoying your relationship brehs

 

[TL15]

Damn if you're looking for arguments against your 20 year old girlfriend who wants to break up with you then you already lost

 

[Foxy Brown]

Why do people feel that being in a longterm relationship in your 20's is a waste of time? I don't understand. Are you suppose to be dating and fukking everything? I really don't understand.

 

[Quiet Magician]

Pretty sure the 20 year old girl is taking the risk, she should be dating around and having fun not be locked up in a relationship with a nikka who is looking to settle down.

 

[1 other person]

The only risk the man has is pregnancy. The woman risk her youth but even in 5 years time she will be 25. 25 is still kind of young. So they are both kind of good unless she gets pregnant.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Neither. Both are young enough in their respective age brackets to where if it did go south, they could recover.

But in the interest of the question, if either was really taking a risk, it'd be the chick. A lot of men don't really reach their "attract a chick with the whole package" peak until their 30s. Assuming the hypothetical breh in this case has all his shyt together, he could spend a couple years with this chick and not be phased whatsoever.

Only way for this to go bad for the chick is if she ends up as a single mother (since the way the Coli tells it, that's a death sentence for any chick trying to get cuffed). But even if it were a 5-6 year relationship ... she's still 25 or 26. If she's worried about her 20s/her fun phase or whatever ... age honestly doesn't stop the heauxness. Regardless of gender. Societal norms just try to dictate when to get it out of your system. But really ... people peak at different times.

 

[86\*/98]

Is being in a healthy relationship wasting time?

@TL15 We're not even official. We just move like we are. And she doesn't want to stop fukking with me, she just wants me to agree with her. It's our thing to analyze ourselves and debate/talk about how we feel.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

BIGGER RISK FOR HER. GUYS GENERALLY WANT YOUNGER WOMEN. HARDER FOR THEM TO REBOUND AS THEY GET OLDER. GUYS DO BETTER AS LONG AS THEY MAKE GOOD MONEY.

 

[Dorian Breh]

fukk this bullshyt I'm reading in these replies. You're both fukking adults, she isn't "risking" shyt, fukk her 20s, they ain't hypothetical breh's problem, that's just the chips she needs to put up to make this bet.

Same goes for hypothetical breh, he needs grow some nuts

 

[Myrical Lyfe]

Why do people feel that being in a longterm relationship in your 20's is a waste of time? I don't understand. Are you suppose to be dating and fukking everything? I really don't understand.

Cause if you date someone going into/in their twenty, they will hold it against you. Yes it's shytty. But it's the truth. Every female and every dude wants to have fun in their early twentys, and if there is any weak points in the relationship, they will be exposed because of it.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Cause if you date someone going into/in their twenty, they will hold it against you. Yes it's shytty. But it's the truth. Every female and every dude wants to have fun in their early twentys, and if there is any weak points in the relationship, they will be exposed because of it.

Then they should not get into relationships in the first place.

 

[Myrical Lyfe]

Then they should not get into relationships in the first place.

Some people don't realize that until afterwards.