Who pays for the Date or Is time really money?

[MoonGoddess]

This is one thing i can honestly say i dont understand why people make a big deal. Tho i've never actually had to do it outside of my relationships i have no problem paying for a date or paying my half. But as with women there are a lot of guys who prefer to pay, some dudes will legit look at you like you are being disrespectful if you offer to pay. It's so awkward to bring up. I just make sure i have money with me at all times.

I kinda hate the whole dating phases of relationships. I like to get to the part where things are understood and you don't have to worry (at least not always) if you are doing the right thing, following proper dating etiquette etc.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

As soon as she started talking about her time and money bullshyt I woulda tuned her out for life. But as a man I expect to pay for the date. I'm going out with this chick later for the first time.
Best believe it's only for coffee tho

 

[Neuromancer]

As soon as she started talking about her time and money bullshyt I woulda tuned her out for life. But as a man I expect to pay for the date. I'm going out with this chick later for the first time.
Best believe it's only for coffee tho

Smart man.

 

[VFib]

I've never done a coffee date. How long does that last? Do you finish your coffee, then end the date? Do you go somewhere after?

 

[Neuromancer]

I've never done a coffee date. How long does that last? Do you finish your coffee, then end the date? Do you go somewhere after?

depends on the people. I usually get coffee then walk around and talk.

 

[Rawtid]

I've never done a coffee date. How long does that last? Do you finish your coffee, then end the date? Do you go somewhere after?

I think it depends. I like for dates to be 2 hours tops in the beginning so just kicking it for coffee and maybe some dessert or something is cool enough. Anything more than that then you should plan to do something else.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

I've never done a coffee date. How long does that last? Do you finish your coffee, then end the date? Do you go somewhere after?

First date when your just getting to kno someone coffee is perfect. If we click than I don't mind spending more money after that. Id be pissed if I spent $60 on a first date and never saw the chick again