Hurt people hurt people.
Scarred men and scarred women are 2 sides of the same coin, and everybody out there with battle scars after years of war, got PTSD and messed up in the head and refuse to believe that maybe just maybe it's them who needs to put in some work to attract what they think they want.
Folks really believe they deserve the world because they don't have an iota of self awareness and can't see the sad state of their own pitiful life, and why someone wouldn't want to be with them.
I just saw a fat chic who's 45 with multiple children on Kendra G talmbout she only wants a man who makes $100k and if he doesn't, that's a deal breaker. I'm looking at this fat heffa like wow, she really doesn't see how unattractive she is on the outside, and that's before we ever get to the inside.
But I've seen the same thing with men, dudes who have absolutely nothing going in life, don't even have a job, and thinking they deserve the cream of the crop when it comes to women.
There's a lot of delusional sick people in this world.