You know the old saying that "women like men who provide security and protection"? Well that statement is true, anywhere in the world. Women from broken homes or runaways are usually looking for a father figure to guide them and provide them protection. Pimps know how to exploit that. They often use "push and pull" tactics to get these women the adore them then they withold feelings to toprture the women (they make the women feel that they can't live without the pimp). They lure the women in on some "I'll love you forever"..... "I'll protect you from the world"..."once we make enough money in the game me n you are going to get married and live happily ever after". etc.
It's pretty much the same way fatherless women are always trying to find that male figure in their life to protect them
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This shyt right here sums it up:
Word. Like I said I worked at a UG strip club you had workaday strippers but you'd have girls who would come through maybe blaze the V.I.P. room once in a blue moon or even just once and keep it moving.
Sex work is a funny term because even sex workers don't really consider it work. Chicks who can motivate themselves to be able to seduce and reduce tricks on a daily basis are few and I would call them
Natural Hoein' Most girls finesse themselves into doing something strange for some change. For example the only difference in a UG club and a "legit club: is that it was ok to fukk in the club. There was a fee for using the VIP room so nothing's stopping a chick from getting a number and meeting a trick later. The VIP room was for convienance, safety , and anominity. But no one made them fukk tricks some didn't they just danced UG for extra money after the regular clubs closed or because if they saw anyone they knew in real life they couldn't tell on them because why would you be in a UG club?
Chicks respond to suggestion If a trick went to a UG club and a chick didn't fukk , a lot of the tricks refused to get a lapdance from chicks who didn't fukk. so strippers would fukk to pay the pay out fee so that they didn't owe at the end of the night or because it was slow.
I knew mad girls who said they would never... till they did it. That being said 95% of hoes wasn't getting rich off of it, they tricked the money off as soon as they got it. The mentality was basically it was "free money" not "How can I get the maximum money and stack it?". That's why a chick needs a pimp to help her focus.I mean it's kinda wierd to come to club when you felt like it Did what you wanted based on how you felt in the moment then immediately spend the money on hair and nails or buying their kids some jordans. You'd really have chicks look down on other hoes and justify it by saying
They didn't do it full time.
But that was the strip club in the novel
Mama Terry McMillian wrote about how her mom's and her friends made ends meet by fukking the occassional Canadian trick. Again at the end of the day
they were still poor they could've just worked a couple of extra shifts at a legit job.
. A guy in our class found her ad and recognized her in it 
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