Why aren't color struck women ridiculed with the same energy as black men????

[Micky Mikey]

I know there are bigger issues to be concerned with but its something I've noticed. And being color struck applies to both sides. I've heard black women say that they dont date dark skin men and some that say that dont date light skin men. Most of us just chalk it up to them having a preference. However, if a black says he exclusively only dates light skin women or white women, he's bashed (and perhaps rightfully so). Shouldn't we apply the same level of criticism for women as we do the men?
To me its all stupid and divisive. And if were going to overcome the issue of colorism both genders need equally shared criticism.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Cuz men don't unite like women do.

Tall dudes clown short dudes and side with women on the topic.
Rich dudes clown broke dudes and side with women on the topic.


We know the Al B Sure vs Wesley Snipes competition between brothas about whose in and whose out right now.

But honestly, we all eat for the most part so it ain't that serious. We aren't like women who want everyone to like them. 99 dudes can call a woman pretty but the 1 dude who doesn't will make her write an article about colorism or fat shaming or whatever.

 

[ben anderson]

Because at the end of the day none of that matters as a man when you have money or clout. Just like colorism doesn’t matter when you’re bad and have a fat ass

 

[Stuntone]

Women have somehow found away to make people ignore their hypocrisy.

They're just like Fox News.

 

[BlackAchilles]

Cause women have no sense of accountability/consistency/reciprocity

 

[Commish]

OP..

I find it interesting that some people feel that ridiculing, bashing and shaming folks for their dating choices is an effective remedy.

Personally, I could care less about anyone who doesn't want to fukk with me for whatever reason. I can't help what skin tone I rock and I don't have the energy nor patience to police others on who they choose to deal with because at the end of the day, whether I like it or not, people are going to fukk with whoever they want to fukk with, shamed or not.

 

[Zero]

 

[Gold]

Men arent women.

We dont ridicule them heavy cuz honestly we have more important shyt to worry about


And i prefer it that way. If i ever find myself moving like a female then i gotta take that L

 

[Taadow]

Because Color is to women what Height is to men...and most men who understand aren't a$$holes about that women (and some men) are.

 

[Memorial Stadium Piru]

Never got this OP

I know/knew just as many girls chasing around/fawning over/exclusively dating/having crushes on lightskin men & clowning nikkas for being dark

The only difference I can think of is that rappers actively talk about their love for lightskin women in music, and if your opinion is based on what rappers say you lost

 

[UpAndComing]

Same reason the public cares about Mothers day more than Fathers day

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Because society lets women get away with crying and blaming everyone/every thing else for their problems. A man doesn't get to cry about "colorism" being the reason why he can't get women. People will laugh that dude out of the building and call him every name possible.

I don't filter any of my preferences regardless of who don't like it. Cold world, get a sweater

 

[Micky Mikey]

Cuz men don't unite like women do.

Tall dudes clown short dudes and side with women on the topic.
Rich dudes clown broke dudes and side with women on the topic.


We know the Al B Sure vs Wesley Snipes competition between brothas about whose in and whose out right now.

But honestly, we all eat for the most part so it ain't that serious. We aren't like women who want everyone to like them. 99 dudes can call a woman pretty but the 1 dude who doesn't will make her write an article about colorism or fat shaming or whatever.

very true indeed

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Because it's ok for women to be perpetual victims. Men, not so much.

 

[DrDoom]

Because men aren't taught to give a shyt about how light the women u fukking are and get clowned if they ever get questioned for it