Why Black men chose white women over black women

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I get it, I understand why black men chose white women, now just because I understand it, does not mean I agree with it.

But since I've been driving weekends the last month, most of my passengers have been white men and women, either from the business world or from nice subs an rich areas.

Also on weekends I drive my nice car to work then I start driving uber right after my shift end. So I think it' because my car is really nice these women open up alot easier then when they think your a bum so I get alot of effortless conversation without trying for the most part.


Sometimes there stupid drunk But most of them are sober.

Here is what I've learned about white women.
Very easy going, and unusually open, and not defensive. And this behavior was not just attributed to the mediocre looking ones but the dimes as well.

They live in the moment, there not concerned about what people think or how it looks, they just wanna have fun an enjoy the moment.

There ignorant and or not aware of there place in society, meaning even the ones with great jobs or the ones from wealthy families were high and mighty acting, I never got the "I'm right because I'm white and I say so!" Vibe.

As for white men....here is the shocker
For then black men that come from 2 parent homes and live in the subs an rich areas, or the black men that have good jobs and do well for themselves.
The white men are about 90% the same as black men in there same wealth class.

White men treat white women just like black men treat black women, no better or no worse. They have a since of entitlement, selfishness.

The white men that are successful who are in actual relationships and marriages really really love the women there with and love having fun with them. The black men who are just as successful and are in committed relationship or married treat there women like queens and really love being with them.

Now the single, well off, good job having white man is similar to the black male counter part but never get the same backlash as single well off black men.

I've heard these white men refer to white women as "leased cars, when we put just enough miles on them, we take them back to dealership for the newest model with no miles"...this comment was from a white guy.

They also know the women they deal with "want them for there money, and we want them for there looks, but they can't play the like game like we can cause when there looks fade I'll still be rich and they'll be washed up and old and single" this comment also came from a white man.


Also.....white men do not care about black men f#cking white women. That's pretty much limited to southern white men. West coast white men just like bad bit$he's, but when they get married and have kids they will settle with a white women because they want they bloodline to continue.

White men will have sex with black women, and white mean acknowledge that black women are hot, I was shocked when alot of passengers claim "Sza" to be extremely gorgious. White men who date black women tend to like dark skin black women more then black men do...

But at the end of the day, most of those white men will marry and a white women, and ones that don't marry asian specially Japanese women.

So where does this leave black women.
Think black women are strong to a fault, there use to taking leadership roles. There always on guard, but all this is for good reason.

White women are not under constant attack like black women, white women are overly represented in all phases of media. And easily get higher paying jobs.

Dispite feminist white women, most white women are not feminist and want the man to take the lead, although the media will protray it different.

Black women are not allowed to just be women with some type of stereotype attached to hit.

For example, about 95% of coli members can't
Tell the difference between a front lace wig, a half wig, a full wig and hair pieces.

Countless times coli member will post pics of a mixed Ig model, or a afro-latino chick and talk about how long and how nice there hair is, or that they prefer these women because there more natural..............

BREAKING NEWS
About 90% of those Dominican and afro-latina or what you guys call "Spanish" THAT IS NOT THERE REAL HAIR EITHER!!!! They perm there hair too, front lace, half wigs, prices, they do it too. The those curly afro's you love......most of them are wigs !!!!


But you assume, you give them the benefit of the doubt of that being there "real hair" when it's not.
Even more then half of the white women you see add to there hair and wear pieces.

But they never get call out for it, or the fake eye lashes, or drawn eye brows, or fake tan, it is assumed that because there not black it must be there's.

This is why black women are defensive, because everything they do is held against them ways white women dont have to defend themselves.

Black women has a one stand night, she's a hoe
If a white women does it, she was just having fun or exploring or just being young and single.

White women get to move on from there hoe phases, black women, they have to be hoes forever.
But really there is no difference, it's just the media driven perception.

So you have to understand to mental gymnastics it takes to be a black women that other races of women don't have to deal with.

I don't know the answer to this problem, but I think we all have to be a little more understanding of what our women have to deal with just like we expect them to understand what we go through.

There is alot or self hate, when black men don't seek out black women. I believe this because when black men deal with white women they mentally believe it's a escape from being who they are, it might even be a sense of freedom, a element of just being able to live.

But when a black man is with a black women he is forced to deal with an realise his place in society and well as her's, and there is a sense of, we have to fight against the world x2. With white women, you get to escape that aspect, and just worry about the relationship, sort of taking the easy way out, but there is no easy way out.
 
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:why: Ain't nobody reading all that.
I get it, I understand why black men chose white women, now just because I understand it, does not mean I agree with it.

But since I've been driving weekends the last month, most of my passengers have been white men and women, either from the business world or from nice subs an rich areas.

Also on weekends I drive my nice to work then I start driving uber right after my shift end. So I think it' because my car is really nice these women open up alot easier then when they think your a bum so I get alot of effortless conversation without trying for the most part.


Sometimes there stupid drunk But most of them are sober.

Here is what I've learned about white women.
Very easy going, and unusually open, and not defensive. And this behavior was not just attributed to the mediocre looking ones but the dimes as well.

They live in the moment, there not concerned about what people think or how it looks, they just wanna have fun an enjoy the moment.

There ignorant and or not aware of there place in society, meaning even the ones with great jobs or the ones from wealthy families were high and mighty acting, I never got the "I'm right because I'm white and I say so!" Vibe.

As for white men....here is the shocker
For then black men that come from 2 parent homes and live in the subs it rich areas, or the black men that have good jobs and do well for themselves.
The white men are about 90% the same as black men in there same wealth class.

White men treat white women just like black men treat black women, no better or no worse. They have a since of entitlement, selfishness.

The white men that are successful who are in actual relationships and marriages really really love the women there with and love having fun with them. The black men who are just as successful and are in committed relationship or married treat there women like queens and really love being with them.

Now the single, well off, good job having white man is similar to the black male counter part but never get the same backlash as single well off black men.

I've heard these white men refer to white women as "leased cars, when we put just enough miles on them, we take them back to dealership for the newest model with no miles"...this comment was from a white guy.

They also know the women they deal with "want them for there money, and we want them for there looks, but they can't play the like game like we can cause when there looks fade I'll still be rich and they'll be washed up and old and single" this comment also came from a white man.


Also.....white men do not care about black men f#cking white women. That's pretty much limited to southern white men. West coast white men just like bad bit$he's, but when they get married and have kids they will settle with a white women because they want they bloodline to continue.

White men will have sex with black women, and white mean acknowledge that black women are hot, I was shocked when alot of passengers claim "Sza" to be extremely gorgious. White men who date black women tend to like dark skin black women more then black men do...

But at the end of the day, most of those white men will marry and a white women, and ones that don't marry asian specially Japanese women.

So where does this leave black women.
Think black women are strong to a fault, there use to taking leadership roles. There always on guard, but all this is for good reason.

White women are not under constant attack like black women, white women are overly represented in all phases of media. And easily get higher paying jobs.

Dispite feminist white women, most white women are not feminist and want the man to take the lead, although the media will protray it different.

Black women are not allowed to just be women with some type of stereotype attached to hit.

For example, about 95% of coli members can't
Tell the difference between a front lace wig, a half wig, a full wig and hair pieces.

Countless times coli member will post pics of a mixed Ig model, or a afro-latino chick and talk about how long and how nice there hair is, or that they prefer these women because there more natural..............

BREAKING NEWS
About 90% of those Dominican and afro-latina or what you guys call "Spanish" THAT IS NOT THERE REAL HAIR EITHER!!!! They perm there hair too, front lace, half wigs, prices, they do it too. The those curly afro's you love......most of them are wigs !!!!


But you assume, you give them the benefit of the doubt of that being there "real hair" when it's not.
Even more then half of the white women you see add to there hair and wear pieces.

But they never get call out for it, or the fake eye lashes, or drawn eye brows, or fake tan, it is assumed that because there not black it must be there's.

This is why black women are defensive, because everything they do is held against in ways white women do have to defend themselves.

Black women has a one stand night, she's a hoe
If a white women does it, she was just having fun or exploring or just being young and single.

White women get to move on from there phases, black women, they have to be hoes forever.
But really there is no difference, it's just the media driven perception.

So you have to understand to mental gymnastics it takes to be a black women that other races of women don't have to deal with.

I don't know the answer to this problem, but I think all have to be a little more understanding of what our women have to deal with just like we expect them to understand what we go through.

There is alot or self hate, when black men don't seek out black women. I believe this because when black men deal with white women they mentally believe it's a escape from being who they are, it might even be a sense of freedom, a element of just being able to live.

But when a black man is with a black women he is forced to deal with an realise his place in society and well as her's, and there is a sense of, we have to fight against the world x2. With white women, you get to escape that aspect, and just worry about the relationship, sort of taking the easy way out, but there is no easy way out.
 

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A lot of this is just your opinion.

A black women is a hoe if she has a one night stand.. a white women isnt.. blah blah. Says who?? A hoe is a hoe anyone calling ppl hoes are usually equal opportunity with it. You even say white guys treat white hoes like hoes then ditch em.

The only women who escape the label are those who stop hoeing. If you 33 and still out here fukking mad ppl then yea you a hoe forever.

Plus you sound like you just met a white person for the first time recently. I been all over the US trust me white guys don't like nikkas fukking white bytches everywhere. It's just not every white guy. It's usually the ones who don't have a surplus of buns. That's the same for all races tho.
 

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But when a black man is with a black women he is forced to deal with an realise his place in society and well as her's, and there is a sense of, we have to fight against the world x2. With white women, you get to escape that aspect, and just worry about the relationship, sort of taking the easy way out, but there is no easy way out.

I don't think this is accurate at all. :beli: I am not dating black women but even I have seen this not to be true. When I see black love I see a serious unity and strength not one of you speak of...:salute:I have seen more cooperation within black couples even more so especially in 2017.

My parents never felt this way when they got married. Most black couples I have seen and KNOW do not act this way...also some of my friends are married to white women who feel that way either that there is some "escape".

While this is your opinion too I think this was way off. No disrespect.:whoa:
 

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So much people not reading it :mjlol:


You made SOME good points OP. But most of what you're saying are stereotypes. Although alot of them are true for some people. I'm not a follower though


Just give me a Black or Black mixed woman who's submissive, slim thick, and has natural hair, and I'll be set for life :yeshrug:
 

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Most of what you said was true...

I've been in intimate situations with white folks throughout most of my life. That is some very accurate stuff you are saying.

The difference in White folks and black folks is just the sheer number. White men have more white women to choose from, and white women have more white men to choose from. This is what leads to the crossover and interracial dating... :manny:
 

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But when a black man is with a black women he is forced to deal with an realise his place in society and well as her's, and there is a sense of, we have to fight against the world x2. With white women, you get to escape that aspect, and just worry about the relationship, sort of taking the easy way out, but there is no easy way out.

I don't think this is accurate at all. :beli: I am not dating black women but even I have seen this not to be true. When I see black love I see a serious unity and strength not one of you speak of...:salute:I have seen more cooperation within black couples even more so especially in 2017.

My parents never felt this way when they got married. Most black couples I have seen and KNOW do not act this way...also some of my friends are married to white women who feel that way either that there is some "escape".

You spoke against my point in your first paragraph then validated my point in your last paragraph.
 
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