
They sometimes don't have a choice but to abort. The dude that get them pregnant are halfway out the picture which means they'll struggle. Or they might be married and a baby from another man would end that marriage. More single mothers = bad for the community.
And I'm not saving them either. I have my own priorities and goals to look after. Raising a child is a lot of responsibility and can hinder your plans and fun
It sucks, but it is what it is.![]()
at the thought of it, would kinda explain the perpetual misery and hardships black people go through.
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My nikka straight carried a child's life like it was a rainy day.
I know one thing, a lot of people better hope there's no judgement in the afterlife. When you're so narcissistic that you refuse to take accountability for doing something to produce a child, but kill the child because it might put a damper on your "fun" how do you explain that without sounding like a complete sociopath.
But then again, if you subscribe to the notion that heaven and hell is a mental and physical state, the sheer amount of black people who've had abortions and the amount of those who hit theat the thought of it, would kinda explain the perpetual misery and hardships black people go through.
Where did I say I'd kill a child? Can you bold that for me, because I don't ever recall saying that.
These are big grown ass people. What do I look like giving sympathy to someone who keeps making bad mistakes? We all know what sex can lead to but some choose to indulge in it anyway without the proper precautions. I don't feel sorry for adults who keep making the same mistakes and I'm definitely not about to pick up the slack. I don't believe in abortion myself and if I did get a girl pregnant I'm taking full responsibility. People need to do the same, take responsibility
If you took the time to read instead of getting in your feelings, the only thing I said about you was that your statement reduced a child's life to an inconvenience. The rest of that post was about black people in general.
With that said, you actually have the proper outlook, if you're doing something, you should be prepared for any and every potential outcome.
That's because a child can be a big inconvenience, they cost a ton of money and time, having to put off financial and career goals. But in my opinion, calling them an inconvenience doesn't make it a bad thing, it's just what is and something you have to prepare for. If it was easy then a lot more people would have kids from the get-go, but they not, they're waiting for the right time.
Waiting for the right time means actually waiting. Not doing what you want anyway and hand waving away the consequences.
And what if that unborn child is the next Nikola Tesla or George Washington Carver? You've deprived the entire world of a gift because you didn't wanna miss out on Thirsty Thursdays at the bar. As far as career goals, plenty people have had kids and still accomplished those goals, it's harder yeah, but not impossible.