Don't understand dudes who don't hit the gym and bulk up or cut up. That solves at least 50-60% of your problems. When you get in good shape, you automatically gain confidence. Period. You start walking different, you bop your head to the music in your headphones a little more, you walk with your head high, you open up to people more, you don't look away when you catch a girl eyeing you, you wear clothes that show off the guns more. And all that translates outside the gym and gives you this new edgy personality you didn't have before because now you feel worthy of female attention and respect. You still gotta work on your game and social skills... But even then if you're still aloof or socially awkward bytches might give you a pass if your looks is on point and you're confident