Why do men find it odd when a man enjoys female company?

godkiller

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because when you think of women as sex objects instead of people it's hard for them to understand how someone could be around them without trying to have sex with them. If they weren't sexist pigs, they would realize that women are people and have personalities and people like their personalities (including men) and want to be friends with them.

I agree, but in real life this isn't the fact. As far as studies go, real friendships between (white) men and women are virtually non-existent:

Science Shows Why It Seems Impossible For Men and Women To 'Just Be Friends'

The study: It may sound stereotypical, but men do have sex on the mind. Researchers at the Norwegian University of Science and Technology surveyed 308 heterosexual undergrad students between the ages of 18 and 30, asking them about their friendships, sexual attractions and experiences with misread social signals.

The result was that men commonly overperceived sexual interest from women, with the female participants saying they'd had their friendly actions misunderstood by men about 3.5 times over the past year on average. On the flip side, women reported underperceiving sexual interest from men, although markedly less so".


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Honestly, I get along well with women and sometimes enjoy their company, but it's always better when there are dudes there. I can't put up with the moodiness, the cattiness and the shyt of taking things too personally. I can make a joke today and it's all laughs, and make another one in a few days that's the same, but all of a sudden it's like I've killed someone. I can't be around that nonsense too much. I can only enjoy my female friends' company in doses.

I know plenty of guys who prefer to just hang around women, and 9/10 are constantly displaying dangerous levels of bytchassness.
 

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There's nothing wrong with enjoying a female's company.
But to a degree.

It's a bit weird to hang out with a girl all the time and there NOT be some kind of underlying romantic interest there. It's almost always there for the man.
Women can sometimes act oblivious to it though.
 
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