Why do people always want/expect others to do shyt they aren't doing themselves??

[It is a mystery]

People always talking about why aren't goons busting guns at so and so and the people asking are the same people who's trigger fingers turned to twitter fingers

People are always asking why aren't black people making some specific media or invention but have no interest or intent in creating it themselves or contacting those in the industry and letting them know of demand for it

Even from Yup's thread. We have someone talking down to the black community saying we need more commitment to investments of houses, marriages, and businesses and by the 1st page it was revealed that she lives with her parents, isn't married, and does not own a business



The people who have revolutionized stuff saw a problem with what was in front of them and changed that by doing something. Lead by example

 

[agnosticlady]

Happens at my job. I was about to hit my coworker over the head with a big bottle of shampoo. It gets extremely annoying.

 

[Yup]

People always talking about why aren't goons busting guns at so and so and the people asking are the same people who's trigger fingers turned to twitter fingers

People are always asking why aren't black people making some specific media or invention but have no interest or intent in creating it themselves or contacting those in the industry and letting them know of demand for it

Even from Yup's thread. We have someone talking down to the black community saying we need more commitment to investments of houses, marriages, and businesses and by the 1st page it was revealed that she lives with her parents, isn't married, and does not own a business



The people who have revolutionized stuff saw a problem with what was in front of them and changed that by doing something. Lead by example

Before you get married you need to work on yourself to establish a good rekationship. I was talking to my 20s crowd. You establish before you enter a meaningful relationship.

All you needed to was ask.


I said we need to change attitude toward relationship because it is toxic.
I live at home you think i am sitting at home and do nothing all day?
I bought a condo...did you know that.

I am pursuing an education in law ....did you know that.

I work a full time job. Did you know that?

As for the business...its a long term plan.

 

[Heafcliffe]

I concur. It's easier to suggest than it is to implement and put into action.

 

[Koba St]

Because it's easier to talk that to actually get off your ass and do something.

 

[Mrl HiGrnd]

People love bytching about shyt they don't do. Everyone does it and in reality it's really just projecting what you know you need to do yourself.

 

[Groanman]

My son is a senior in high school this year.
And I always preached to him that he should start his own business.
Meanwhile, I'm working for other folks.

A few days ago, I sat down with him and asked him to help me start up our own business.
Dude looked very proud, man.
This way, I'm kind of forced to stay on track with this.

 

[It is a mystery]

Before you get married you need to work on yourself to establish a good rekationship. I was talking to my 20s crowd. You establish before you enter a meaningful relationship.

All you needed to was ask.


I said we need to change attitude toward relationship because it is toxic.
I live at home you think i am sitting at home and do nothing all day?
I bought a condo...did you know that.

I am pursuing an education in law ....did you know that.

I work a full time job. Did you know that?

As for the business...its a long term plan.

This post did post did quote me and I kinda just ignored it because I didn't want this thread to be just a response to your thread. I may as well respond this post at least I guess

Unless you are wealthy enough to just own properties for the value of owning them or to have them as a retreat somewhere, owning a property and not living in it seems questionable. Especially when you are living with your family outside of any property you own.

For the marriage point, you admit to not being married here. For the business point, you admit to not owning a business.
You have 1/3 points with the one even being questionable but went at a group of people for not having the 3 done. Anything further for me to say here would be a repeat of the first post or other posts in this thread

 

[Yup]

This post did post did quote me and I kinda just ignored it because I didn't want this thread to be just a response to your thread. I may as well respond this post at least I guess

Unless you are wealthy enough to just own properties for the value of owning them or to have them as a retreat somewhere, owning a property and not living in it seems questionable. Especially when you are living with your family outside of any property you own.

For the marriage point, you admit to not being married here. For the business point, you admit to not owning a business.
You have 1/3 points with the one even being questionable but went at a group of people for not having the 3 done. Anything further for me to say here would be a repeat of the first post or other posts in this thread

You are missing the point here completely. The point of the thread was tp talk about our approach to relationships hence why i mentioned marriage slash relationships. Nowhere did i make this a marriage thread...i included as listed item under relationship.

You have really no point but you think you do.

 

[YeLovesBoston]

quarterbacking from the sidelines. I saw so many black people talking about how they were ready to fight and how they loved the riots. Meanwhile they're doing this from their keyboard and not doing a damn thing . Seriously, if you aint there fighting everyone Cac you see don't come at nikkas who don't you coward

 

[At30wecashout]

Cause for all the complaining people are doing, they know that rocking the boat is either gonna throw it all away or get them killed, so they invest
emotionally in everyone else doing something. Post oodles of smileys and post their e-manifestos on The Coli.

We all have beefs with the system, and the general strife we see. You don't have to pretend you are doing numbers, saving every black person in distress, or killing
white folks to be taken serious. In fact, that rah-rah shyt is fugazi for the fact that I realized how many people were more upset with how many people could see
that shyt they complain about (threads about shyt in the locker room) being moved to areas where conversation would be free of trolls, rather than having good conversation.

It's ok, though, they can do what they want.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

the coli.com

 

[live it to the limit]

Because people are lazy. I always try to live by the motto of not asking people to do anything that I'm not willing to do myself