I'm mostly asking about the men, breh, I understand why women would have very strong feelings on either side of the issue
But for a guy, when he lays up with someone who hasn't agreed to have his kids, why does he feel such entitlement to the woman after she gets pregnant? He chose to roll the dice, it's always a possibility when you're having sex with someone. What's his argument for this?
Politics aside (because the bolded doesn't rely on political affiliation), regardless of if you want a child or not, that's still part you. We have a biological instinct to want to raise our young, even if some ignore it.
I don't have any children, but if I got someone pregnant and they wanted to get an abortion, I would do everything in my power to try to convince her otherwise. Offer to pay all medical bills until the birth, and then fully adopt the child if she doesn't want to deal with, etc etc. Of course in the end it would come down to her, but I would still plead my case.
I can't speak for everyone, but if I know half of my DNA is in that child, I personally would feel like part of me died if that child died. And i'm sure many women would feel the same.. .especially because its literally part of them.
