Why do so many black people mean-mug and look mad, even at clubs/social events?

[igottabaldhead]

Was out in the city (Manhattan) last night, bar hopping.

And frankly, most of the white, asian, latins young people and girls will be drunk and goofy laughing out loud, smiling having a good time,

But SO many black dudes and black women will be posted up either on some tough/aggressive/combative negative aura mean mugging any dude who passes them (for the dudes) or have the stank face/dont talk to me aura (for the brehettes).

I’ve observed this from NYC to Atlanta to Houston to Philly, etc. why are so many of us so hostile and uptight even out in NIGHTLIFE where people shoiuld be carefree and relaxed??

That is not a healthy way to exist

 

[Jcotton1]

Why do u care? My folk kill me focusing on what the majority of our folk do good , bad etc. As an American breh I can only speak for me We not all poor, don't come from a single parent home, we not all thugs/ hood rats.

Honestly if someone else is mad let me stay mad. Just get out the way so they won't shoot up the club literally. All you can do is worry / focus about You and yours life would be easier that way.

i get a head nod at the grocery store or out and about from younger brehs like myself.

 

[M.O.N.E.Y.]

I have seen this across the world with black people (Europe/Africa, etc.).

It makes me believe something must have happened in our collective history that makes us distrust one and another even to this day.

 

[Hathaway]

Unfortunately, we are taught that we have to compete with each other. Therefore, we want to see ourselves as better than other black men/women. I see it all the time. It's not every black person but it's enough that I notice.

Me personally, I give the "head nod" to any black man I see.

 

[TheGooniestGoon]

A lot of people got resting bytch face but if you talk to them they usually cool peoples

 

[RTF]

You must have fukk boy energy. Probably not even black.

Black men under 25 - yeh some might mean mug. But I generally find brehs good natured at all times of day. I mean the black man nod is part of that.

 

[igottabaldhead]

Why do u care? My folk kill me focusing on what the majority of our folk do good , bad etc.

Honestly if someone else is mad let me stay mad. Just get out the way so they won't shoot up the club literally. All you can do is worry / focus about You and yours life would be easier that way.

Why should i care that the people i look like and should be able to relate to the most in public more often than not have a hostile energy??


I’m not talking about just 4 random individuals i saw - im talking about this is a common theme for tens of thousands and thousands across America.

 

[Dad]

then go to a white or Asian club if you feel more comfortable.

 

[coldcall]

A lot of our people are miserable

 

[UncleTomFord15]

Why do u care? My folk kill me focusing on what the majority of our folk do good , bad etc. As an American breh I can only speak for me We not all poor, don't come from a single parent home, we not all thugs/ hood rats.

Honestly if someone else is mad let me stay mad. Just get out the way so they won't shoot up the club literally. All you can do is worry / focus about You and yours life would be easier that way.

 

[igottabaldhead]

You must have fukk boy energy. Probably not even black.

Black men under 25 - yeh some might mean mug. But I generally find brehs good natured at all times of day. I mean the black man nod is part of that.

I am 24 and am speaking about other young Gen Z people. Not church going uncles and aunties lol.

 

[Mowgli]

Face gets stuck like that after years of having to look like someone you don't want problems with.

Looks can be decjeving because it's obvious these nikkas are waiting for a hug.

 

[Detroit Wave]

I am 24 and am speaking about other young Gen Z people. Not church going uncles and aunties lol.

Its cuz u a bald 24 year old they sense the bytch in you

 

[King Poetic]

Depends on the atmosphere/environment for me in Los Angeles

Some places black people be relax and cool and enjoying life

Some other places nikkas and bytches be ready for war and only smile when they feel a opportunity is coming they way

 

[Jcotton1]

Why should i care that the people i look like and should be able to relate to the most in public more often than not have a hostile energy??


I’m not talking about just 4 random individuals i saw - im talking about this is a common theme for tens of thousands and thousands across America.

I've had the same issue I didn't trip nor let it get me off my square.

Breh You cannot save everyone. Your stress levels would be lower if you took that into accnt helping where u could and keeping it moving on the rest.

Take the this same energy and help an elderly brotha or sista with yard work or taking em to the store if need be. Be the change locally mentor some kids.