"Why do some men want strong women?"

[Dad]

When a man is asking for a strong woman..
It’s a coded way of asking for loyalty..
Life is not linear..
Peaks and Valleys..
Ebb and Flows
And just because somebody “makes it”..
Has it at the moment..
Life has a funny way of sucker punching your temple..
Most men have no problem providing/spoiling..
For a woman that shows effort of her own..
To be quite frank..
The unselfishness my wife displays..
Makes me go harder for her..
To always provide for..
Even though she doesn’t ask and has her own..
I appreciate her candor though..
But I hope she doesn’t think she will attract princess status..
With a vision like that..
She will be no more than a bust it baby until those looks fade..
Some women really don’t get it..

Touché

 

[Monsanto]

A grown man wanting a “strong woman” stems from a guy raised by a single mom.

The man should always be strong.

Look at this stupid rhetoric.

 

[Ahadi]

Look at this stupid rhetoric.

 

[King Frost]

nigerian?

love the accent

can i fly her out?

 

[saturn7]

What do they mean by strong?

If they mean headstrong as in argumentative and uncooperative, then hell no.
If they mean strong mentally or spiritually, someone who doesn't break down when times get tough (they eventually will) then of course.

That woman sounds like an entitled gold digger.

 

[Chrishaune]

This life is full of struggle...Don't need you to be as strong as a man, BUT...If you don't get out of that weak mindset you'll take your man down with you.

 

[Jeshaman]

For the kids. You won't be around for ever

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Why are Black women always expected to be strong?

 

[Peter Popoff]

A woman that complains and describes the definition of what a weak man is, is usually describing themselves and not a weak man.

This corny annoying bytch is a weak woman.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Why would you want a weak person to raise your children? To take care of you when you’re sick? To make important decisions with you? That’s stupid.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Why are Black women always expected to be strong?

I truly don’t believe this is a race issue..
Ideally..
Everyman on this earth..
Regardless of race/nationality/ethnicity..
Wants his life partner
Or
Wife
To foremost have the capabilities of
Nurturer for the children
Presence of mind to make decisions in the time of distress
Money making ability/handling skills in case a man is knocked off for a minute
Courage to be able to defend the home while the man is away
Counsel in the time of life altering decisions
You want your wife to have not only agency of herself..
But the understanding that life can go into the mud..
At the drop of a dime..
Black women are survivors and champions..
They have always shown the depth of their strength..
In times of adversity..
Nobody is specifically asking them to be strong 24/7..
But let’s be reality..
Every black person on this earth right now..
Needs to show strength..
This is not the time to be outchea talking about princess status..
When clearly we are being attacked from every angle possible..
This shyt is tone deaf just like having songs about..
Wet p*ssy or shooting nikkas a 100 times..
We are on the precipice of economic ruin..
Dramatic climate change
A relentless illness nobody has any clue how to contain..
Sorry..
But I need a woman to be strong(I fortunately married one and my ex is one)..
Because if this shyt gets real ugly..
I ain’t got time to be dragging around an inept princess..
Women should hold the same tenets I posted for brehs..
Life partner too..

 

[xXMASHERXx]

At least she's being honest so you know what you're getting

 

[The Fade]

if she dont have 33 degree mason knowledge i dont want her

 

[DreadBrown]

She’s joking

Why are Black women always expected to be strong?

Because since slavery they’ve had to be be prepared for the men to be taken away at any time

I realised recently that I looked for my women to be strong cuz I expect to end up dead or in jail

we expect to suffer

the woman in the op is exaggerating but when you think about it its sad as fukk

 

[JadeB]

Why would you want a weak person to raise your children? To take care of you when you’re sick? To make important decisions with you? That’s stupid.

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